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JGCwayZeBaby
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Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 1:38pm |
Yep... seems like every time I turn around someone I know is getting engaged/married or pregnant. More so acquaintances than good friends in my inner circle, though I did find out that my last ex now has a child. I'll be 22 in April, it's not time for all that. Not yet. It's just funny having constant reminders that I'm heading towards that point in my life.
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jonesable
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Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 1:39pm |
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Like 1/3 of my highschool class is married and a lot of them have babies.
I really really don't want that right now. But they seem happy and the weddings have been cute and fun so good for them,
Edited by jonesable - Dec 06 2012 at 1:40pm
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csungrl09
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Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 1:56pm |
SoutherNtellect wrote:
i felt the same. here i was studying my butt off and trying to make a relationship work, everyone else had started their jobs/careers, gotten engaged/married, or were having a baby.
my time will come. or it won't. either way life will go on |
i try to think that way but i'd be MORTIFIED if it didn't happen to me. i have lonely aunts...i'm not about that life!
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csungrl09
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Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 1:57pm |
nitabug wrote:
I was just thinking this last week.
My ex's are engaged and planning weddings. Almost everybody in my dept. is married and 2 people just got engaged.
My sister just got engaged.
I want to be happy for everyone but it's getting sickening.
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csungrl09
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Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 1:59pm |
JGCwayZeBaby wrote:
Yep... seems like every time I turn around someone I know is getting engaged/married or pregnant. More so acquaintances than good friends in my inner circle, though I did find out that my last ex now has a child. I'll be 22 in April, it's not time for all that. Not yet. It's just funny having constant reminders that I'm heading towards that point in my life. |
ALL of this. i'm going to be 22 also.
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Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 2:00pm |
Most of the people I went to school with had kids in HS or right after. So that doesn't make me feel any type of way.
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csungrl09
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Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 2:00pm |
It's so hard to watch!!!! i had an image of how my life would be by this time & i'm not even close (aside from graduating in the spring...which was definitely the plan!) its killing me!!!!
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Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 2:01pm |
Elohim_is_Love wrote:
csungrl09 wrote:
is everyone and their mom getting engaged or having babies...
i know i am at that age, but DAMN.
i can't imagine my bestfriends doing these things, that will just be too REAL!
i feel like i'm not doing something right cause i'm definitely not there yet. |
We can get married and have some babies |
thanks, my ovaries just did a happy dance.
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Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 2:05pm |
Elohim_is_Love wrote:
But real talk even as a man, I'm feeling left out..... |
whats your take on this? i have notice alot of men on my newsfeed saying things like that too
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Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 3:00pm |
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i feel like the oddball in my group of friends. im the only one married and the only one with kids. they arent even seriously dating anyone right now.
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