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I see it. Mostly on tumblr because I track the mental health tags. Teenagers and artists. The teenagers I hope will grow out of it. Made up diagnoses and names for disorders that aren't even used anymore. Romanticizing cuts and stays in the hospital

The only thing is that I can't try to sift through who is really sick and who isn't. For every attention seeker there is one sufferer who isn't believed because they don't fit what people think mental illness is supposed to look like. I'd rather err on the side of caution
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Sort of reminds me of the whole "started from the bottom" argument that everyone seems to say. I know a lot of yt people who say they grew up with nothing or they're parents had nothing and worked hard, but how hard did they have to work in a privileged system?

Everyone has to be special. We all want a trophy. I think we are called the "trophy generation" or something like that, meaning we highly depend on other people for praise and little criticism because our self-esteem is really important. I heard this sort of attitude is really messing up the job seekers of this generation.
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I hate when people do that because it makes it seem like the "real" condition isn't very serious. 

& like afro said, I think many people use that as a cop out to be a-holes. 
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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

yeah i smh at all self diagnoses of mental disorder.  i have on friend who pretty much labled herself and her son as having adhd.  it got on my nerves so much that i finally asked what doctor diagnosed her with it and she just said "girl, i know i have it and so does he."Stern Smile i told her dont ever say that ish around me again.  she also has diagnosed her sister as being bipolarErmm thats just not cute to me.
Parents will tell you the child is ADH Without ever consulting a Doctor . Take the dang time to be a parent . Kids have a lot of energy dummy .OuchCry

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The messed up thing about this is the sheer number of people, especially Black people, who have clear signs of mental and personality disorders who won't even acknowledge that it even exists.
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white people think it's a trend...yeah i said it!
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The only reason I don't totally knock self diagnosis is because I know everyone doesn't have access to the type of care they need. My psych appts cost 200 an hour. They usually make appointments for every 2 weeks. They don't take insurance. One of meds is $600 for a month supply and that's with good insurance. Good care is hard to find especially if you're limited to low cost providers.
Or if you're a teenager, they're often scared to tell their parents they think they're ill

Sometimes google is all you have
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Originally posted by kkscottdale kkscottdale wrote:

Sort of reminds me of the whole "started from the bottom" argument that everyone seems to say. I know a lot of yt people who say they grew up with nothing or they're parents had nothing and worked hard, but how hard did they have to work in a privileged system?

Everyone has to be special. We all want a trophy. I think we are called the "trophy generation" or something like that, meaning we highly depend on other people for praise and little criticism because our self-esteem is really important. I heard this sort of attitude is really messing up the job seekers of this generation.


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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

yeah i smh at all self diagnoses of mental disorder.  i have on friend who pretty much labled herself and her son as having adhd.  it got on my nerves so much that i finally asked what doctor diagnosed her with it and she just said "girl, i know i have it and so does he."Stern Smile i told her dont ever say that ish around me again.  she also has diagnosed her sister as being bipolarErmm thats just not cute to me.


Parents will tell you the child is ADH Without ever consulting a Doctor . Take the dang time to be a parent . Kids have a lot of energy dummy .OuchCry


I agree with all of this. Drives me insane. My sons dad tries to do that crap with his other kids. I'm like no, y'all just aren't organized and your household is chaotic.
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Cool? Nah. While there seems to be a "glamorizing" for lack of a MUCH more accurate phrase, plenty of people still have stigmas and misconceptions about mental illness. To compound those misconceptions, some people with the diagnosis tend to let that diagnosis become their label or excuse as to why they can't/won't take responsibility for their actions/behavior.
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