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oh but to really answer the question.. 

if its an ugly associate.. like.. im not a good liar with things like that unless i plan it out.. i would hesitate or not make eye contact when they asked if shes cute.. they would know... 

if it were an ugly friend.. id probably nod and be like, 'she coo..' then talk about her body and other things about her.. id never openly call a friend ugly (if i wouldnt say it to them.. i wouldnt say it behind their back).. id always have their back.. if need be we'd just go get her some extra makeup or somethin.. makeup is magic.  

edited to add stuff. 
wait though.. i might tell my bf or bff or fam member.. only 1 or 2 ppl that i know would never be messy. 
or id show a picture.. that would be better.. ive never been in a situation like that though.. gosh it would be tough to have ugly friends.. idk what id do.  


Edited by coconess - Sep 09 2013 at 9:25pm
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I say, "you'll like her."

Because looks, they don't matter really. Men r more lenient than women r, from my experience. She's got her $hit together and don't need a man. She's cool as hell and confident. That's what makes her attractive. I don't even mention looks. I ramble on and on about how awesome and together she is. When the dude sees her, he sees someone who dresses nice and has themself together. Eventually the dude will talk about her looks and say whatever he feels, but its always followed by, "she's cool as hell." And they always hit it off.

I will always say looks do not matter if u have swag.
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i never had an ugly friend.. i only fcuk with bad bishes 

to be honest though.. i think sometimes when its your close friend theyre gonna look better to you.. ive noticed that ppl looked better to me after some time/closeness. 

i have a friend who in reality is probably just 'really cute' or 'pretty' not 'bad'.. but her personality, swag (i know bhm doesnt like that word but i do..) and style all together makes her bad. guys always try to talk to her.. 

Not-so-cute chicks pull guys all the time for that very reason. They have other attributes that make them attractive. And no matter what you look like someone somewhere will be attracted. That is why I don't see the big deal with saying that someone isn't physically attractive. You can't even call someone average without a fuss.
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i only describe weight when i describe my friends. 

i think men are way more into bodies than faces. 
like 90% body 10% face

as a woman, when i judge attractiveness it's more holistic.... 
i don't even bother mentioning "prettiness" to men..
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For real for real...when it comes to set ups. If u don't bring up the person's looks its gonna be assumed that they only have a nice personality. It is what it is. Are my friend's supermodels and tumblr girls? No. But are they attractive? Yes. *shrugs*

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I think my friends are beautiful. I have found that alot of guys expects your friends to be in the same weight, shape category as you. Im short and slim but my friends are all different heights and sizes from slim to thick to chubby and we all have completely different styles. Dudes would always say they didnt expect my friends to look like that. I guess we are supposed to be clones of each other.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote AshBash89 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 09 2013 at 10:53pm
Two of my friends are absoultely stunning, I mean ridiculously beautiful by American standards and they always attracted a ton of attention to our group. I'm alright/cute and have never minded the free drinks, VIP etc...but I've noticed that like tends to travel with like.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote cece1987 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 09 2013 at 11:52pm
Hmm can you guys please post a pic of what, yall consider an ugly friend, and a cute friend. I have average friends.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote herwoman Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 10 2013 at 12:03am
My good friend from waay back is unattractive but I love her.We don't hang out with my other friends because they stupid but we do lunch. I would never try to set her up on a date but I pray that she finds love one day. I love her she's the best.
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It's not hard to set people up with people who are on their level of attractiveness...however low it may be....
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