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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by OhMyCurlz OhMyCurlz wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Does anyone find it odd that people seem upset about someone saying baby momma instead of Erica Jacobs mom but did they express this same anger, outrage, oh no you didn't attitude when for whatever circumstances ....

That you didn't see fit to take birth control when its so much out there
<span style="line-height: 1.4;">That for reasons unknown either you didnt want to get married or werent asked pre baby</span>


Economic situations aside, religious thoughts out the window and even if it is common in this day and age that it should not be the norm?


 <span style="line-height: 1.4;">Why do you assume that a woman "didn't see fit" to take birth control....just because she got pregnant? There to date is no form of contraception that is 100% effective. Every woman who is (or has) phucked without a ring "put themselves in the position" to be a "baby mama". No one is "safe" unless they are faithfully married or virgins. </span>

Being a single mother shouldn't be the norm, but for reasons outside of all that you have listed...it happens. Most single mothers didn't intend/want to be single parents. 






hmph....also i notice that we are having this discussion along the lines that a<b style="line-height: 1.4;"> woman who has a child/children out of wedlock automatically = single mother... i thought a single mother = a mother whose partner/child's father is nowhere in the picture; or is only paying child support and plays no role in the child or her life?

Lamp believe it or not...
-there are women in committed, long term, happy relationships with children
-there are women who choose to have a child outside of marriage, birth control did not fail -them, nor are their pregnancies unexpected, unwanted, or accidents.
-there are unwed mothers who are not on welfare, holding down great jobs, are stable, and happy
-there are unwed mothers who are not ..."indecent", or "irresponsible," and havent been "dishonoured" 
(yes I'm updating this listLOL) - there are unwed mothers who didnt have 43 men run through them and got pregnant, and are actually good people who made a decision based on what they feel is best for them



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Yeah whenever I hear people act like there aren't well educated, financially stable, and completely happy women choosing that marriage isn't a prerequisite for children I often think they live very sheltered lives and pay them no mind. It's a big world out there, not all families look the same.
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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:



Yeah whenever I hear people act like there aren't well educated, financially stable, and completely happy women choosing that marriage isn't a prerequisite for children I often think they live very sheltered lives and pay them no mind. It's a big world out there, not all families look the same.

Yeah, bhm's our own little Lalaland. Gotta ppreciate its cookinessLOL
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At the end of the day.....its is what it is......yall deep in y'all feeling......
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Lol did I miss something?
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Like the poster in another thread worried about her baby getting compliments.....girl you got too many Ls to be worried about niccas on Facebook.....and if its cause your baby is dark.....I can't even entertain that any longer.....

They are waiting for you to get in a tizzy about this comment I made.....feel free.....its kinda dry these days.
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Oh my guuudnessLOL.

Life will adjust the hell out of your certainties.   Bookmark this thread for 2024Wink.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Like the poster in another thread worried about her baby getting compliments.....girl you got too many Ls to be worried about niccas on Facebook.....and if its cause your baby is dark.....I can't even entertain that any longer.....

They are waiting for you to get in a tizzy about this comment I made.....feel free.....its kinda dry these days.

lol O.
Yeah you're right I do need to be more focused since I'm at this University now. Idle minds are no good and that's what I had.

I like yall I think you've given me advice privately once before, so I have no reason to disrespect. We're the same ones on the board all the time I'm not gonna get mad at. 
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Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

Oh my guuudnessLOL.

Life will adjust the hell out of your certainties.   Bookmark this thread for 2024Wink.

I agree but somethings you just know aint for you.....like smoking crack.....I know that just aint for me....selling my box for Newports....nah not for me....LOL

Not saying these this are equivalent to being a baby momma....
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


lol

Bribby isn't one of those type of posters I see

(which is a good thing, but not on a slow ass day)



Yall know I fwyall! lol 

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That was a terrible example Sandy.  Get out!!LOL
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