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Im not mad or outraged, Im just surprised that people act surprised when people say it. I said pages ago I thought it was tacky and for the record I dont say so and so's baby momma or baby daddy. 





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I say child's mother/babymama depending on who I am referring to. Babymama does flow beautifully off the tongue and for SOME single/never-married mothers, it is more than appropriate imo. I do refer to a wife with a child/children as a wife and an ex-wife that had kids while previously married, as an ex-wife.
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Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Yes..

I see nothing positive about being one. 


Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:



basically baby momma is for the lower class and/or tacky


I agree with both.

Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

I don't use the term in my life & I find it to be disrespectful as some way to diminish the importance of the mother so yes it is offensive.



I don't use the term either, and I find it ghetto.

Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

Here we go againLOL

This is from niccah's not wanting to acknowledge previous relationships by referring to the child's mother as an ex.  Baby's momma sounds nice and detached but is the farthest from detached you can get.  IDK.  They need to do better. 


By they did you mean the women who accept being called like that?
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Does anyone find it odd that people seem upset about someone saying baby momma instead of Erica Jacobs mom but did they express this same anger, outrage, oh no you didn't attitude when for whatever circumstances ....

That you didn't see fit to take birth control when its so much out there
That for reasons unknown either you didnt want to get married or werent asked pre baby


Economic situations aside, religious thoughts out the window and even if it is common in this day and age that it should not be the norm?


 Why do you assume that a woman "didn't see fit" to take birth control....just because she got pregnant? There to date is no form of contraception that is 100% effective. Every woman who is (or has) phucked without a ring "put themselves in the position" to be a "baby mama". No one is "safe" unless they are faithfully married or virgins. 

Being a single mother shouldn't be the norm, but for reasons outside of all that you have listed...it happens. Most single mothers didn't intend/want to be single parents. 



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Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Does anyone find it odd that people seem upset about someone saying baby momma instead of Erica Jacobs mom but did they express this same anger, outrage, oh no you didn't attitude when for whatever circumstances ....

That you didn't see fit to take birth control when its so much out there
That for reasons unknown either you didnt want to get married or werent asked pre baby


Economic situations aside, religious thoughts out the window and even if it is common in this day and age that it should not be the norm?



I find it kind of odd that you're so adamant that having a baby w/o being married requires scorn and outrage.   Can you explain your justification for this thinking?  Who made this rule?  Do you believe that once a rule about the social "norm" is made it must be followed until the end of time?  Regardless of how actual people live their lives?

Because I can think of a whole heap of sh*t that was not a social norm just 25 years ago. 

Agreed. I think it's kind of weird that people in 2014 actually think they are exempt from being a single mother.....all while having pre-marital sex. 

I think some people sort of look down on single moms (who have never been married). 

If you have sex at any point in time while you are not married than you could have very well become a single mom (baby mama). That's statistically, most women in this country at some point. If you think that that IUD is going to prevent you from getting pregnant and keep you from being a "baby mama" with 100% certainty that's fine...but it's not true. 

Women who give birth within a marriage are not better than women who give birth outside of marriage. They are all mothers deserving of some level of respect if they are raising their children as best they can. 

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I just say so and so mother or father.
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