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So. Let me get this straight. A woman does what women are equipped to do. Give birth.
But because she had the child outside of marriage she needs to be okay with being referred to as someone's baby momma.

She can be a hard working educated homeowner juggling the pressures of single motherhood. Hell, running her own business....but nah, she's still reduced to baby momma.

Uh huh. Gotcha!

Lemme know how that hateful sh*t works out in your favor when it's your turn.


You basically playing yourself. This is classic special snowflake syndrome.

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Originally posted by SeducTress SeducTress wrote:

So. Let me get this straight. A woman does what women are equipped to do. Give birth.
But because she had the child outside of marriage she needs to be okay with being referred to as someone's baby momma.

She can be a hard working educated homeowner juggling the pressures of single motherhood. Hell, running her own business....but nah, she's still reduced to baby momma.

Uh huh. Gotcha!

Lemme know how that hateful sh*t works out in your favor when it's your turn.


You basically playing yourself. This is classic special snowflake syndrome.

*exits thread laughing hysterically*
You summed it up best. Clap




Edited by OhMyCurlz - Mar 26 2014 at 4:06pm
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Originally posted by SeducTress SeducTress wrote:

So. Let me get this straight. A woman does what women are equipped to do. Give birth.
But because she had the child outside of marriage she needs to be okay with being referred to as someone's baby momma. 

She can be a hard working educated homeowner juggling the pressures of single motherhood. Hell, running her own business....but nah, she's still reduced to baby momma.

Uh huh. Gotcha!

Lemme know how that hateful sh*t works out in your favor when it's your turn. 


You basically playing yourself. This is classic special snowflake syndrome.

*exits thread laughing hysterically* 

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Edited by Wildfire - Mar 26 2014 at 4:37pm
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Originally posted by StylingArabella StylingArabella wrote:

That term dehumanizes both parties being talked about IMO. By saying "Baby momma" you are simply stating that the women involved is nothing more than an object that bared YOUR child and that the "baby" is simply a result of sleeping with that objectified women not your daughter, son, or child's name. Trash and deflection if you ask me.

Re wording the pharse is more pleasant such as "That's the mother of my child", "She's my son's mom", or "That's Carol..she's Jane's mother"...hell "that's my Ex" is even bettter.
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Thank you ducky.  Being extremely adamant about the term basically demonstrates the disdain.  That sh*t aint even hard to see or understand.  Duly noted like a muthaphucka in factLOL
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So circumstances change the meaning, welfare seeking hoodrat is a baby momma but a working uppity woman gets a pass?

Okay

Just for the record I think the word is tacky.

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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

So circumstances change the meaning, welfare seeking hoodrat is a baby momma but a working uppity woman gets a pass?

Okay

Just for the record I think the word is tacky.



From what I've seen the only circumstances required to be called baby momma is mothering a child while unmarried and/or being the mother of a child whose father you are no longer married to. 

We have terms for everything in the hood and they get redefined to suit our liking or to communicate the level of self worth and/or value in society we assign to the people we're giving our opinions about.   Apparently they are also meant to communicate our world view on that persons actions and decisions.  Like the words thug, hoochie, jump off, etc.    They are directly tied to that opinion one has of that person.

Unless we're trying to talk about the term baby momma as if we individually coined the term and have exclusive trademark rights to determine how it is used in a sentence.  If not its whatever anyone black (and I guess yt now too) says it is. 
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