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Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

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in the J'can context, its babymother, and its not something thats looked down on. In fact, the babymother gets plenty of respect, or comes first. (where is Diane? I need one of her eloquent posts on the matterLOL) babymother is even used to describe upper crust women, who have a child by a man who they are not married to. I cant recall any outrage over the term.

For some reason i feel likein the US context, babymama bares a different connotation, even though its the same thing, just worded differently?



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If you have a baby.....your are the momma.....and a baby momma.....they hate the term.....I rather be more worried with having wedlock babies...
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

If you have a baby.....your are the momma.....and a baby momma.....they hate the term.....I rather be more worried with having wedlock babies...


but the term implies that you are indeed referring to your bastard baby and their mother.  it was not/is not a term referring to wedlock babies. yes, "technically" every woman on earth who has ever given birth is a baby momma but that's not what that term means or its origination.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

If you have a baby.....your are the momma.....and a baby momma.....they hate the term.....I rather be more worried with having wedlock babies...


but the term implies that you are indeed referring to your bastard baby and their mother.  it was not/is not a term referring to wedlock babies. yes, "technically" every woman on earth who has ever given birth is a baby momma but that's not what that term means or its origination.


These thoughts aren't related.....one is my opinion on the subject the other is a bigger issue that is more important......LOL


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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

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LMFAO.....@ this gifDead


in the J'can context, its babymother, and its not something thats looked down on. In fact, the babymother gets plenty of respect, or comes first. (where is Diane? I need one of her eloquent posts on the matterLOL) babymother is even used to describe upper crust women, who have a child by a man who they are not married to. I cant recall any outrage over the term.

For some reason i feel likein the US context, babymama bares a different connotation, even though its the same thing, just worded differently?


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I mean...people gon always have a opinion about anything that you do so it shouldn't even matter. Just be the best you you can be. That sounds corny but you know what I mean. You might be a baby mama but you can be doing better than a lot of people without kids or people who were married when they had kids. It's just another form of cattiness. 
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This may be a bit off topic, but it especially bothers me to hear the "main stream" use that word. I remember when Fox called Michelle Obama a "babymomma" and then justified it by saying that there is a movie called "Baby Momma" with an all white cast. 
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I just dont like the grammatical aspect of the phrase....Id be okay with babies Mother....cause it is what it is, just use proper grammer is all I'm saying.
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

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LMFAO.....@ this gifDead


in the J'can context, its babymother, and its not something thats looked down on. In fact, the babymother gets plenty of respect, or comes first. (where is Diane? I need one of her eloquent posts on the matterLOLbabymother is even used to describe upper crust women, who have a child by a man who they are not married to. I cant recall any outrage over the term.

For some reason i feel likein the US context, babymama bares a different connotation, even though its the same thing, just worded differently?


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That's why i asked for other opinions. Your experiences may be different. I dont know. Ive never seen or heard a babymother scorned or reviled because she is a babymother. Usually there are other issues related to why the woman is treated or looked at a certain way --maybe not getting along with the family; she had a child with a man who was already married, etc. Even the dancehall DJs treat the babymothers with respect ---

and yes YG, I have heard the term "babymother" used to describe uptown hoity-toity women how have kids out of wedlock. Nobody says "baby's mother". 


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