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I just asked someone what he would consider me if we had a baby in a year... he asked if we would be married. I said no, he said he refer to me as his baby mama. I smh and he said, were not married right. I asked why not your child's mother/ ex? he said.. were not married.

He was so serious..
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I guess it takes to long to say my son's mama, or mother if you fancy?
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The only thing worse than hearing a man call a woman a baby momma...is hearing women proudly refer to themselves as that....or aspiring to be that. You can be a proud single mother without identifying yourself as a "baby momma". That's what so many women don't understand. That's why that "Baby Mama" song by Fantasia kinda irked me. EVERYTHING she was talking about was celebrating single mothers.....not a "baby momma".
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

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LMFAO.....@ this gifDead


in the J'can context, its babymother, and its not something thats looked down on. <font size="4" color="#0033ff">In fact, the babymother gets plenty of respect, or comes first. (where is Diane? I need one of her eloquent posts on the matterLOL<font size="4" color="#0033ff">babymother is even used to describe upper crust women, who have a child by a man who they are not married to. I cant recall any outrage over the term.

For some reason i feel likein the US context, babymama bares a different connotation, even though its the same thing, just worded differently?


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I prefer mother of my child. I don't take pride in baby momma, it's insulting as if that is all you will ever be.
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Does anyone find it odd that people seem upset about someone saying baby momma instead of Erica Jacobs mom but did they express this same anger, outrage, oh no you didn't attitude when for whatever circumstances ....

That you didn't see fit to take birth control when its so much out there
That for reasons unknown either you didnt want to get married or werent asked pre baby


Economic situations aside, religious thoughts out the window and even if it is common in this day and age that it should not be the norm?


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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Does anyone find it odd that people seem upset about someone saying baby momma instead of Erica Jacobs mom but did they express this same anger, outrage, oh no you didn't attitude when for whatever circumstances ....

That you didn't see fit to take birth control when its so much out there
That for reasons unknown either you didnt want to get married or werent asked pre baby


Economic situations aside, religious thoughts out the window and even if it is common in this day and age that it should not be the norm?



I find it kind of odd that you're so adamant that having a baby w/o being married requires scorn and outrage.   Can you explain your justification for this thinking?  Who made this rule?  Do you believe that once a rule about the social "norm" is made it must be followed until the end of time?  Regardless of how actual people live their lives?

Because I can think of a whole heap of sh*t that was not a social norm just 25 years ago. 

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Why would that be bad? Confused
Anyway, do you.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote BBpants Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 26 2014 at 7:39pm
It's more respectful to say mother of such and such...but I would use baby momma as a casual term.
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