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So what if you had your baby out of wedlock...and then married the "baby daddy". Is like your baby mama status erased because you're married now? 

So I guess Tiny isn't a baby mama anymore, but if Oprah and Stedman could/did have kids...Oprah would be a baby mama. 


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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:



lemme re-use the same gif



*cackles*

he looks ok in real life....for a Brit




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I don't consider people who are together be baby mamas/daddies. 

When I hear baby mama it is usually associated with someone who laid down with some sorry ass dude..knowing u will never be his wife and chasing him down to take care of his kid/kids
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That term dehumanizes both parties being talked about IMO. By saying "Baby momma" you are simply stating that the women involved is nothing more than an object that bared YOUR child and that the "baby" is simply a result of sleeping with that objectified women not your daughter, son, or child's name. Trash and deflection if you ask me.

Re wording the pharse is more pleasant such as "That's the mother of my child", "She's my son's mom", or "That's Carol..she's Jane's mother"...hell "that's my Ex" is even bettter.
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

well, they ain't married yet YG.....there are a few other ladies not public figures, so i will decline from naming names...but its just not possible that no upper crusts ever have kids out of wedlock, its just doesnt happen often ---that people know of anyway.

why does her being a well known professional make a big difference though? --curious


I'm not saying it's not possible but it's just not the norm like with "regular" people.

It makes a difference because an upper crust girl is not having a child by a policeman. That's blue collar work, essentially.

Cindy Breakspeare said her friends' parents sat them down on the living room couch and said "You see what Cindy has done... don't even think about it " LOLLOL
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Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

well, they ain't married yet YG.....there are a few other ladies not public figures, so i will decline from naming names...but its just not possible that no upper crusts ever have kids out of wedlock, its just doesnt happen often ---that people know of anyway.

why does her being a well known professional make a big difference though? --curious


I'm not saying it's not possible but it's just not the norm like with "regular" people.

It makes a difference because an upper crust girl is not having a child by a policeman. That's blue collar work, essentially.

Cindy Breakspeare said her friends' parents sat them down on the living room couch and said "You see what Cindy has done... don't even think about it " LOLLOL

i said that though

and yeah, Cindy is upper crust def

but bob was half white and a celeb. so i guess that made the difference.

Mark is white and a foreigner. So I guess therein lies the diff too. Nobody really thinks of him as "just a polcieman". You know Sheilds and Adams aint seen as being in the same categoryLOL

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LOLLOLLOLLOL Epitome. I think he's a good-looking man. 
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YG...was Mark married whilst he was dating her? cant recall
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

well, they ain't married yet YG.....there are a few other ladies not public figures, so i will decline from naming names...but its just not possible that no upper crusts ever have kids out of wedlock, its just doesnt happen often ---that people know of anyway.

why does her being a well known professional make a big difference though? --curious


I'm not saying it's not possible but it's just not the norm like with "regular" people.

It makes a difference because an upper crust girl is not having a child by a policeman. That's blue collar work, essentially.

Cindy Breakspeare said her friends' parents sat them down on the living room couch and said "You see what Cindy has done... don't even think about it " LOLLOL

i said that though

and yeah, Cindy is upper crust def

but bob was half white and a celeb. so i guess that made the difference.

Mark is white and a foreigner. So I guess therein lies the diff too. Nobody really thinks of him as "just a polcieman". You know Sheilds and Adams aint seen as being in the same categoryLOL

Aint nobody frowning on Emily


Yuh mad man. Bob's ethnicity made not a damn difference. She turned out to be the love of his life though. That's why I don't agree with the fuss about her giving the lecture recently.

Adams is TAINTED!!!! Betta yuh did seh Radcliffe. 
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

YG...was Mark married whilst he was dating her? cant recall

No but I suspect that he might have been married while he was with Keneea but got divorced somewhere along the way. 
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