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well, they ain't married yet YG.....there are a few other ladies not public figures, so i will decline from naming names...but its just not possible that no upper crusts ever have kids out of wedlock, its just doesnt happen often ---that people know of anyway.

why does her being a well known professional make a big difference though? --curious


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My husband is my baby daddy....... lol 
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Sometimes this site scares me.....
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Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:


People say child's mother though. I've spent my fair share of time around the upper crust and they use son's mother or daughter's mother. Then again, they don't have children out of wedlock like that; even if it means a shotgun wedding. Respect for a woman because she's a particular man's BM is usually a ghetto type of mentality. 

This isnt true in my experience. I know - and know of- upper crust women who are in long term, and short term relationships in which they have a child or children. Emily Crooks is not married to Mark Shields. I consider her upper crust of sorts. Not of the Matalon calibre, but upper crust, nonetheless, and i can think of several other women.

It doesnt happen on the wide scale as it does with "downtown" women, but it does happen.

Oh I meant UPPER crust types, not Emily Crooks. She's a well-known professional which is a big difference. And they're getting married this year, apparently. He's so hot to me LOL



lemme re-use the same gif

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So what if you had your baby out of wedlock...and then married the "baby daddy". Is like your baby mama status erased because you're married now? 

So I guess Tiny isn't a baby mama anymore, but if Oprah and Stedman could/did have kids...Oprah would be a baby mama. 


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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:



lemme re-use the same gif



*cackles*

he looks ok in real life....for a Brit




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I don't consider people who are together be baby mamas/daddies. 

When I hear baby mama it is usually associated with someone who laid down with some sorry ass dude..knowing u will never be his wife and chasing him down to take care of his kid/kids
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That term dehumanizes both parties being talked about IMO. By saying "Baby momma" you are simply stating that the women involved is nothing more than an object that bared YOUR child and that the "baby" is simply a result of sleeping with that objectified women not your daughter, son, or child's name. Trash and deflection if you ask me.

Re wording the pharse is more pleasant such as "That's the mother of my child", "She's my son's mom", or "That's Carol..she's Jane's mother"...hell "that's my Ex" is even bettter.
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

well, they ain't married yet YG.....there are a few other ladies not public figures, so i will decline from naming names...but its just not possible that no upper crusts ever have kids out of wedlock, its just doesnt happen often ---that people know of anyway.

why does her being a well known professional make a big difference though? --curious


I'm not saying it's not possible but it's just not the norm like with "regular" people.

It makes a difference because an upper crust girl is not having a child by a policeman. That's blue collar work, essentially.

Cindy Breakspeare said her friends' parents sat them down on the living room couch and said "You see what Cindy has done... don't even think about it " LOLLOL
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Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

well, they ain't married yet YG.....there are a few other ladies not public figures, so i will decline from naming names...but its just not possible that no upper crusts ever have kids out of wedlock, its just doesnt happen often ---that people know of anyway.

why does her being a well known professional make a big difference though? --curious


I'm not saying it's not possible but it's just not the norm like with "regular" people.

It makes a difference because an upper crust girl is not having a child by a policeman. That's blue collar work, essentially.

Cindy Breakspeare said her friends' parents sat them down on the living room couch and said "You see what Cindy has done... don't even think about it " LOLLOL

i said that though

and yeah, Cindy is upper crust def

but bob was half white and a celeb. so i guess that made the difference.

Mark is white and a foreigner. So I guess therein lies the diff too. Nobody really thinks of him as "just a polcieman". You know Sheilds and Adams aint seen as being in the same categoryLOL

Aint nobody frowning on Emily
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