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Gkisses
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Posted: Sep 02 2013 at 5:38pm |
melikey wrote:
ModelessDiva wrote:
I always wonder about the kids that grow up and shoot up schoolslike that columbine school shooting |
i think those people were/are psychopaths and probably could have been helped if it was recognized by their families or community and proper treatment provided.
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Agree.. causes a lot of the times there were signs that parents ignored. Like parents who have teens who are drug addicts or alcoholics. Sometimes parents see what they want to see because thats easier than having to deal with it.The parents say "they never seen it coming" but ask that neighbor or that classmate who saw shh that was off or heard the yelling that took place on and off.
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ModelessDiva
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Posted: Sep 02 2013 at 5:38pm |
melikey wrote:
ModelessDiva wrote:
I always wonder about the kids that grow up and shoot up schoolslike that columbine school shooting |
i think those people were/are psychopaths and probably could have been helped if it was recognized by their families or community and proper treatment provided.
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yep I remember we had to study the columbine shooting in a psych course many of the journal entries were so sad
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BBpants
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Posted: Sep 02 2013 at 5:45pm |
No, its' not always the parents fault. I seen good parents with evil ass kids...but then again I don't know what really goes on in their home.
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Posted: Sep 02 2013 at 5:48pm |
BBpants wrote:
No, its' not always the parents fault. I seen good parents with evil ass kids...but then again I don't know what really goes on in their home.
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yep
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melikey
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Posted: Sep 02 2013 at 5:50pm |
Gkisses wrote:
melikey wrote:
ModelessDiva wrote:
I always wonder about the kids that grow up and shoot up schoolslike that columbine school shooting |
i think those people were/are psychopaths and probably could have been helped if it was recognized by their families or community and proper treatment provided.
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Agree.. causes a lot of the times there were signs that parents ignored. Like parents who have teens who are drug addicts or alcoholics. Sometimes parents see what they want to see because thats easier than having to deal with it.The parents say "they never seen it coming" but ask that neighbor or that classmate who saw shh that was off or heard the yelling that took place on and off.
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yes, and that is an extreme case. how many times have you seen a mother crying her eyes out because her child was accused of doing something heinous and they are STILL in denial talking about "not my baby".
or a mom whose daughter is about 5 months pregnant and she still thinks her baby is a virgin 
i guess love is blind.
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Gkisses
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Posted: Sep 02 2013 at 5:52pm |
twas a girl back home who mama didnt believe the rumors that her daughter was prego until the night she gave birth.... Everyone on the block knew.. i mean the child was wearing a hoodie in june... cha'mone chile..lol shes now on baby 2.
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DiorShowGirl
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Posted: Sep 02 2013 at 5:55pm |
I'M going thru with it right now with my daughter....thinking i have done right for her and well she just goes over the cliff
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melikey
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Posted: Sep 02 2013 at 5:59pm |
Gkisses wrote:
twas a girl back home who mama didnt believe the rumors that her daughter was prego until the night she gave birth.... Everyone on the block knew.. i mean the child was wearing a hoodie in june... cha'mone chile..lol shes now on baby 2.
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afrokock
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Posted: Sep 02 2013 at 6:00pm |
melikey wrote:
afrokock wrote:
ModelessDiva wrote:
LovesHim wrote:
I work with children..... people don't like to hear it but in my professional practice..... the apple doesnt fall far from the tree..... |
this is exactly correct |
these are self serving comfort statements
as an adult you just cant fathom that some kids are perfectly capable of being guided and raised right and still choose to go down the wrong path so you blame the parents
sometimes kids are just kids
no amount of hugs and kisses and sit down conversations can save some of them.
lol you people act like kids are devoid of independent thought and immune to external suggestion even in the confines of a perfect home life
hashtag: delusional |
lol i could have sworn you were one of the people who wouldn't date/marry someone from a "certain type" of family? contradictory much? or does this free will you speak of only work one way?
| im not sure how and what and where i marry has a bearing on the fact that some kids will just turn out fucccked regardless of how solid and how involved their parents are so before i turn into a c*nt, would you clarify how this lil tidbit for me please? cheers
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Gkisses
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Posted: Sep 02 2013 at 6:07pm |
If Im reading it right then I guess she means if thats how you truly feel than it shouldnt matter what type of family your SO comes from because kids are not devoid of independent thought and immune to external suggestion even in the confines of a perfect home life,or a dysfunctional one.
She could correct me if im wrong... but thats what i got from it
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