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And he's rude

And Jones, you're right
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Originally posted by mrshairdo mrshairdo wrote:

Personally I don't think my nephew has any mental issues but he's really stubborn and just bad.. He doesn't listen to anyone
Disorders like the one I mentioned have symptoms that literally say that. I know my gut reaction to some of the kids that come through the clinic is to simply label them 'bad ass kid' (shame on meLOL) but once you start talking to them, you start seeing the underlying reasons for their behaviors and their behavior makes more sense.

Good luck to your nephew.
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my little sister is kinda like that
but she's actually a polite and sweet child--but she is so stubborn and will often ignore what you say and has some great qualities BUT she will play you...i've seen her play her teachers and give them a "bitch why are you asking me this basic ass question" face

my dad holds out hope that she'll eventually stop bc my mom says she was like that as a kid too

my husband's nephew was bad as hell too...he eventually grew out of it...he's like 15 now...but he was troublesome



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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

It can be the parent facilitating an environment that encourages bad behavior, the child may have a mental disorder causing him to act out and/or a combination of both. ODD is an example.
This, but (in my experience) it's SO rarely the latter.

More often than not, sh!tty parenting produces problem children.
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^Guuurl!

One parent was about to lose her child to foster care but swore she was a good parent. Kid was violent, on drugs, etc. The mom barely mentioned that her oldest child left home to live with her friend from school...at age 14.Ermm
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^^ SMH!!

My latest was parents wanting to be sure their kid was ok, but were undermining, withholding info from the other and sabotaging team parenting efforts-- mostly the dad. The kid was fine, despite their stupidity.

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Neka, if you could only see the face I'm making rite na!Unhappy
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[ak]guuuuuuurl[/ak]

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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

It can be the parent facilitating an environment that encourages bad behavior, the child may have a mental disorder causing him to act out and/or a combination of both. ODD is an example.
This, but (in my experience) it's SO rarely the latter.

More often than not, sh!tty parenting produces problem children.

agreed!

letting kids getting away with anything....undermining anyone that tries to discipline them etc
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

my little sister is kinda like that
but she's actually a polite and sweet child--but she is so stubborn and will often ignore what you say and has some great qualities BUT she will play you...i've seen her play her teachers and give them a "bitch why are you asking me this basic ass question" face

my dad holds out hope that she'll eventually stop bc my mom says she was like that as a kid too

my husband's nephew was bad as hell too...he eventually grew out of it...he's like 15 now...but he was troublesome


so awful to deal with
i'm sorry but as a parent i will be busting azz
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