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    Posted: Jun 07 2012 at 5:11pm
its been a really weird week
me and my bf barely talked at allllll
and no good morning messages or i love yous
like he usually does.

it was like that all week, then he'd only talk to me for an hour tops every other day


im so confused idk whats going on

and we're long distance, if it wasnt hard enough..

hasnt even hit me up today...

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2012 at 5:18pm
yes he lost interest, find someone closer in ur town
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2012 at 5:27pm
maybe hes just really busy this week?
is he in school? 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2012 at 6:24pm
Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

yes he lost interest, find someone closer in ur town


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2012 at 6:25pm
Originally posted by indiecat indiecat wrote:

maybe hes just really busy this week?
is he in school? 



no i really doubt it
+ he has classes in the early morning
i dont think someone can be so busy all day without a break

maybe its someone else...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2012 at 7:07pm
Maybe you could ask him. There could be something going on in his life that's causing him to become distant. I've always learned that it's better to just ask rather than assume. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2012 at 7:34pm
Hmmm. you know some like to say, if a guy is interested he will do whatever it takes to let you know that. with that said, how long have you guys been together? how long has this been going on. if its just a week, i wouldn't panic just yet.
since this is a boyfriend, i agree with talk to him, ask him whats up. communicate that because you are long distance it is important for you guys to keep in contact like you did before. hear what he has to say then go from there. if he says nothing has changed and continues with this behavior, then you may just have to back up, pull back and decide if this long distance thing is for you.  but atleast talk to him first.
but i did come across an article the other day about maintaining a LDR. let me see if i can find it.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2012 at 7:37pm
also, how often do you guys see each other? do you skype and do other things to try to keep it fun and interesting?
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How To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Last

Posted by Sweetlocs - June 6, 2012 - Blog

By Ron Hubbard

Having a long distance relationship can be interesting. There are two main types of long distance relationships. There are those in a relationship, but they just happen to have to live apart for various reasons after they’ve lived close by each other. The long term goal is to keep the relationship alive and well until they can reunite. Then, there are those couples that live far apart, and they fall in love even though they have distance. These couples have to build on that love and make it work out even though there may be distance for a long time to come. No matter what the case is, if you have an honest, open relationship and can communicate with one another, you can always make long distance relationships work.
Terms

You must establish the terms of your relationship in the beginning. Talk to your partner about what your expectations are and find out what the reality will be. Discuss how and how often you will communicate, and how often you’ll see each other. Decide how you are going to visit each other who will pay for what. Next, make sure you’re on the same page about whether you’re in a monogamous or open relationship.

Communication

Saying I love you can be done in millions of ways, and you should take advantage of this. Text it, phone it, write it, you name it, do it. It might not hurt to get a little sexy either. Also be sure to send gifts – a box filled with your partner’s favorite sweets or surprises are always an amazing way to keep a relationship alive.

Encouragement

When you and your partner are apart, it’s always good to encourage each other every single day. When you are apart, you don’t get to feel that hug, squeeze of the hand, or goodbye kiss that most couples enjoy. Think of your partner and what they may be going through. Pick up the phone, send an email or just reach out and tell them that you are thinking of them. Wish them good luck on a job interview or congratulate them on a recent promotion. Be as verbal as you can be with your partner and encourage each other all the time.

Keep Busy

Instead of worrying about when your phone will ring, stay busy. This will really benefit your relationship. Do things you enjoy and then share them with your partner when you are reunited. In fact, I suggest throwing yourself into work, hobbies, charity, whatever it is you do when you’re separated, so that when you’re together, it’s that much more special. Furthermore, you can make sure you never have to work while you’re supposed to be spending quality time together!

Being in a long distance couple can seem to be tough, but with good communication skills and some understanding, you can make any distance work!

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 07 2012 at 8:40pm
Originally posted by indiecat indiecat wrote:

maybe hes just really busy this week?
is he in school? 
School's out 
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