Is he expecting to much??

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Here is some
background info on us as a couple:

We have been together
a little over 2 years. I have my own place but we stay at his place 99% of the
time because he has more entertainment over here at his place. Neither of us
has kids.  We both work fulltime jobs 40+
hours a week . He does make more than me and his job is more physical. He will
give me money for things I need if I ask or sometimes he will offer. We have
never had any unfaithful issues. I have always mentioned I wanted a dog but
always stated I don’t think I could handle the responsibilities up until the
day before he purchased the dog (which was a surprise) he agreed that he would
help.

THE FACTS:

I wash and fold his
clothes 95% of the time which includes hauling that heavy ass basket from his house
up my apartment steps. I have asked many times could he at least transport the
clothes because its so difficult. I always end up doing because when does his
own laundry he complains.

I clean up after the
dog 150% of the time!! Don’t get me wrong I love my munchkin but its hard work
taking care of a puppy. He will let the dog sh*t in front of the bushes out
front and leave it for me to pick up instead of taking him to the designated
area and he loves to throw around its your dog when Im cleaning up the toys or
something. In fact the other day the dog sh*tted on his puppy pad he put it in
the trash and left it so when I got off work I had to take it the dumpster at
night by myself.

I try to eat healthy
and he has expressed he wants to too so I used to cook a lot and pack his
lunches but he rarely ever touched anything I packed he would still take his
junkfood and eat out the vendding machines. He wouldn’t even clean the lunch
box out I would have to do that. He never helped with dishes. SO eventually I
stopped cooking for him and packing lunches.

I used to clean the
bathroom constantly finally I just said F*** it and I go home to shower unless I just break down . I would even hold # 2 sometimes but he will not clean it !!!
Stuff he doesnt finish eatting he just throws it in the fridge. I have cleaned out the fride several times and asked him to clean it out for two weeks now and NOTHING.

THAT ISH I DON’T LIKE

Every now and then he
likes throw up what his other friends GF/wives do or say I don’t blah blah
anymore.

Here lately as soon
as I get off its cleaning up after him and the dog and Im too tired to do the nasty
and of course he has start complaining.

I have never been in
a real relationship is these are the things I should do to prepare me for a
wife or he is expecting too much???