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Why pay child support when you can fight for primary custody oooowwwww.

Nah but it go to the childs needs only or put into a savings. If the bm is still gonna let me beat, then I dont mind if she uses some to get her nails did every once in a while.
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I agree with the last part but I understand for many people the is a different sentiment between baby mama and ex wife.
I get that part.
I dont mind that distinction.
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But nothing wrong with baby mama appreciation from the fathers
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Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

Why pay child support when you can fight for primary custody oooowwwww.

Nah but it go to the childs needs only or put into a savings. If the bm is still gonna let me beat, then I dont mind if she uses some to get her nails did every once in a while.




Coochie for a $25 full set, and I still gotta raise the kid? That don't seem fair.

If everything pertaining to the child is taken care of, and the parents have a little emergency nest egg, nothing wrong with a lil treat here and there.

If she's living check to check tho, and still blowing Jr.'s lil extra money, she needs to get her priorities together.
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That money should only be spent on gas, food, bills, anything that benefits the child. A french manicure does not benefit my child or a $500 weave. But if the mom had to put getting her hair done on hold because JR needs shoes or a new bunkbed then there is nothing wrong with her taking that money out of the cs.
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I see it's about that time again.LOL
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i thought back child support was reimbursement for funds already spent by the primary parent...therefore, it's up to her.
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its for the kids. and as long as the kids are with me they are already taken care of...besides...once the cash is in my hand whos gonna tell me how to spend it? you dont wanna come at me.


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The cost of raising a child is more than most child support checks. Daycare, food, tuition, Christmas, health, food and other needs are going to cost you more than that check will be. Child support is the minimum he or she is suppose to pay. The parent who is taking care of the child can spend it as they please, as long as the child is well cared for.

If I supported my child on that money, CPS would have came and got him for neglect. That man will be paying back support when my son has his own grandchildren.
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Meh......I'll do whatever the hell I want with that money if I'm raising the child alone.
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that money is direct deposited into my account and thats the same account i use to take care of my kids and myself
 
seperate bank account for child support bish please LOL
 
 
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