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Ideally it's a reimbursement for child related expenses. The issue is, it's difficult to have an objective view of all the expenses. Things like health insurance and day care fees are easy to deal with because you just split it in half. But things like the cost of meals, electricity usage, housing, time the custodial parent loses, cost of emotional support, etc. are a lot harder to put a price on and depend on each person's standards/perspective.


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I would side more with the reimbursement lady but child support isn't alimony .
Whatever

Really this don't even matter .
The average negro ain't caking to the point where it even makes a difference.
I'm taking care of your chap. Let me cook damn.
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joint custody for the win
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One of my favorite comedians is my favorite specifically because he goes above and beyond supporting his ex-wife and child. He's like if buying her a new car or an ipad will help her be happy and comfortable then I'm gonna do it because I want her to be happy so my child can be happy. And when he makes more money, she gets more money from him...all without a judge or a court order.

That's the right way to do things.
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But really if you get a child support check and try to deposit it into your own account that ish will very likely return.
An account has to be set up for the child.

Plus most mothers do what is in the best interest of their child. I really believe that to the best of their ability.
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Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

joint custody for the win
That's an option to all men but most would rather complain about the $800 and preserve their weeknights for themselves. ..
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

One of my favorite comedians is my favorite specifically because he goes above and beyond supporting his ex-wife and child. He's like if buying her a new car or an ipad will help her be happy and comfortable then I'm gonna do it because I want her to be happy so my child can be happy. And when he makes more money, she gets more money from him...all without a judge or a court order.

That's the right way to do things.



But there is a difference between your ex wife and your baby mama.
That's why I support marriage then kids.
Another reason how I know I'm not ready for marriage...
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You may as well marry her.
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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

joint custody for the win
That's an option to all men but most would rather complain about the $800 and preserve their weeknights for themselves. ..

I guess....I rather take care of my kid and I definitely know everything they need is going to them. My friend won full custody not too long ago.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

One of my favorite comedians is my favorite specifically because he goes above and beyond supporting his ex-wife and child. He's like if buying her a new car or an ipad will help her be happy and comfortable then I'm gonna do it because I want her to be happy so my child can be happy. And when he makes more money, she gets more money from him...all without a judge or a court order.

That's the right way to do things.



But there is a difference between your ex wife and your baby mama.
That's why I support marriage then kids.
Another reason how I know I'm not ready for marriage...


Maybe for some people. But I know several men who do the same for their baby mama's. To them, it's just all about the kid.

Overall though, most people with support orders are not ordered to pay anything even remotely close to the actual cost of raising the kid so I don't feel they have any right to complain about how the money is spent.
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