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PurpleHaze
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Topic: Inviting His Ex Wife to Your Wedding? Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 5:40pm |
If everyone is fine and moved on, is this inappropriate? If she expects to be invited, how to you tell her no? (You have children together, if that matters). (eta: yes, I did google it first  just posting for opinions and stories.)
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ms_wonderland
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 5:43pm |
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what does this mean by "expected"? are we all friendly or she just expects to be invited because there isn't any drama and they have kids?
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 5:46pm |
No. im very petty oh well 
i wouldnt tell her anything she doesnt deserve an explanation
Edited by iGotSunshine - Nov 17 2012 at 5:47pm
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nala52808
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 5:49pm |
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heck no. me and him is tryn to start a future together , so we don't need no sh!t from the past ruining our big day. even if she cool wit us.
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PurpleHaze
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 5:49pm |
ms_wonderland wrote:
what does this mean by "expected"? are we all friendly or she just expects to be invited because there isn't any drama and they have kids? |
she asks "am I invited?"
Edited by PurpleHaze - Nov 17 2012 at 5:50pm
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 5:52pm |
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my sister in law's ex (and father of child) was at the wedding. he was drunk as a skunk
Edited by SoutherNtellect - Nov 17 2012 at 5:53pm
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 5:52pm |
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i'd say no, only friends and family are invited.
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 5:55pm |
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I am a strong believer in where kids are involved adults need to get along. Of course she's invited. Not inviting her or telling her now would be the beginning a long drama-filled life. Besides, I ain't thinking about her on my big day. Unless she got to trippin I probably wouldn't notice she was there.
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 5:55pm |
my dh said when we were dating he would invite his ex's to our wedding
they were not invited 
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 5:56pm |
PurpleHaze wrote:
If everyone is fine and moved on, is this inappropriate?
| i don't think its inappropriate.
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