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not only do you have to instill pride and Knowledge in him you have to keep him away from all the outside ignorance that he is surrounded by YOUR brother like so many has been brainwashed and is suffering from internalized race issues the best you can do is tell him FRANKly how he hurt you by what he has said tell him exactly how you feel! even though he may not agree with you now but he may one day change his mind!~ your influence means everything! also try and take him around some other types of black people and other people in general because he does not sound well rounded
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Originally posted by Lilaca Lilaca wrote:

You need to try some reverse psychology ish on him...

Where is his hatred coming from?


I think you need to tell your brother the stories of his people....


-How blacks including black woman invented ish and the clear man stole it
-How boys like him are targets for the po po no matter the skin tone
-How anything non black really views him 




you really believe this will make him find darker skin women attractive ?
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what have your parents done to make sure he didn't end up like your other brother?
better question would be what have her parents done to make 2 of there sons coons

i wonder if op dates white men
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Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


what have your parents done to make sure he didn't end up like your other brother?
better question would be what have her parents done to make 2 of there sons coons

i wonder if op dates white men
cross ref the good docs thread
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He is emulating your older brother.  I would focus on showing him the true character of that specific family member. 

If he's talking like that at 14 it probably means race hasn't been seriously discussed with him from a proud black family member.  I think you need to do that in a way that teaches him pride instead the sh*t he's probably learning from other 14 year olds and a certified coon.   If you really want to help him you need to make time to take him outside of the house and get his ear by doing something he likes.  Like laser tag or something.  Laser tag + a lesson in colorism on a lovely Sunday afternoon...
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Black males are more susceptible to Eurocentric propaganda then black women who identify their race before gender/sex.

 
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i heard my cousin (female, just turned 13) making fun of her sisters color (5) like saying she was really dark.. i didnt like it and told them that i didnt like it.. 

but i talked to her mom about it later.. and she allows it.. she said, 'thats how they play' if the mom allows it my hands are tied. i explained to her that with the girl being so young she can grow to feel like dark skin is not cute cus jokes are being made about it.. she agreed.. but she still allows it. i think she'll teach her dark daughter that her skin is gorgeous so im not really worried.. but i still didnt like it. 
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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Choke him


LMAO!!

I got a lil brother...I dunno about yours but I'd prob be like, and who told you your ass was cute, you lil punk ass bitch

But somebody said that was emotional abuse :-/

But your lil bro probably just got his feelings hurt calling her ugly.
She prob ain't paying him no mind so the only way he can get some attn is to call her dark & ugly. She turned him down and his lil teenage pride is. Bruised


Why he have to go for the skin color though?  Because he is a self hating coon that's why.  OP, If there is anyone you think he may respect that is a darker skinned black woman you could be like "so and so is dark skinned, would you say that to her?"  But idk, coon logic doesn't make sense.  I tell ya, I always wanted a younger sibling but these days I'm glad I don't have to deal with this mess.
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Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


what have your parents done to make sure he didn't end up like your other brother?
better question would be what have her parents done to make 2 of there sons coons

i wonder if op dates white men


Good points about the parents though.  Parents (even my own) SERIOUSLY drop the ball with sons in almost every area of life.
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Originally posted by mangachan mangachan wrote:

Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Choke him


LMAO!!

I got a lil brother...I dunno about yours but I'd prob be like, and who told you your ass was cute, you lil punk ass bitch

But somebody said that was emotional abuse :-/

But your lil bro probably just got his feelings hurt calling her ugly.
She prob ain't paying him no mind so the only way he can get some attn is to call her dark & ugly. She turned him down and his lil teenage pride is. Bruised


Why he have to go for the skin color though?  Because he is a self hating coon that's why.  OP, If there is anyone you think he may respect that is a darker skinned black woman you could be like "so and so is dark skinned, would you say that to her?"  But idk, coon logic doesn't make sense.  I tell ya, I always wanted a younger sibling but these days I'm glad I don't have to deal with this mess.
 
Unfortunately dark skin is an easy target. The girl is pretty so the only shot at her self-esteem he can take at her is that she's dark-skinned. Lil ignant ass boys
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