IN A STATE OF SHOCK AND DISBELIEF

not only do you have to instill pride and Knowledge in him you have to keep him away from all the outside ignorance that he is surrounded by YOUR brother like so many has been brainwashed and is suffering from internalized race issues the best you can do is tell him FRANKly how he hurt you by what he has said tell him exactly how you feel! even though he may not agree with you now but he may one day change his mind!~ your influence means everything! also try and take him around some other types of black people and other people in general because he does not sound well rounded

SamoneLenior wrote: what have your parents done to make sure he didn't end up like your other brother?

better question would be what have her parents done to make 2 of there sons coons

i wonder if op dates white men

He is emulating your older brother.  I would focus on showing him the true character of that specific family member. 

If he's talking like that at 14 it probably means race hasn't been seriously discussed with him from a proud black family member.  I think you need to do that in a way that teaches him pride instead the sh*t he's probably learning from other 14 year olds and a certified coon.   If you really want to help him you need to make time to take him outside of the house and get his ear by doing something he likes.  Like laser tag or something.  Laser tag + a lesson in colorism on a lovely Sunday afternoon...

i heard my cousin (female, just turned 13) making fun of her sisters color (5) like saying she was really dark.. i didnt like it and told them that i didnt like it.. 

bunzaveli wrote: SamoneLenior wrote: what have your parents done to make sure he didn't end up like your other brother? better question would be what have her parents done to make 2 of there sons coons i wonder if op dates white men

Good points about the parents though.  Parents (even my own) SERIOUSLY drop the ball with sons in almost every area of life.