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 Posted: Jun 28 2014 at 5:37pm |
 Ok guys, so answer me this: let's say one day I am absent-minded or my dog pulls too hard or I simply slam my door, and he opens his door and starts with his bullsh*t, but let's say I ignore him as many posters suggest and he again calls me a b!tch. Then what?
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Posted: Jun 28 2014 at 5:39pm |
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He must was having a bad morning... |
That is no reason to stereotype someone, shout, cuss, and involve the whole building. He probably thoiught he would intimidate by letting me know no one likes me here. I also forgot to say that when I was talking, he interrupted me with a "HEY!" and kept talking, so I interrupted him and told him not to hey me.
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Posted: Jun 28 2014 at 5:39pm |
sexyandfamous wrote:
Ok guys, so answer me this:
let's say one day I am absent-minded or my dog pulls too hard or I simply slam my door, and he opens his door and starts with his bullsh*t, but let's say I ignore him as many posters suggest and he again calls me a b!tch. Then what?
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Keep on ignoring him and report the incident to the landlord. That's more ammunition to get a restraining order on him if need be. Keep a log of any aggressive behaviour and practice the white tears. Say that he's making you feel unsafe (to landlord, police, whomever). Around him, just smirk.
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Posted: Jun 28 2014 at 5:40pm |
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How very classy, ms. wonderland.
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Posted: Jun 28 2014 at 5:42pm |
sexyandfamous wrote:
Ok guys, so answer me this:
let's say one day I am absent-minded or my dog pulls too hard or I simply slam my door, and he opens his door and starts with his bullsh*t, but let's say I ignore him as many posters suggest and he again calls me a b!tch. Then what?
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Keep ignoring.. call the police. Don't try to go head to head with that goon.
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Posted: Jun 28 2014 at 5:54pm |
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Op u could always charge him with harssment. Google gave me this
You would need to inform the person to stop the behavior and have no further contact - this should be done by a written letter certified mail with a return receipt requested to show that demand to stop was made and delivered
If contact happens beyond this time it qualifies as harassment
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Posted: Jun 28 2014 at 6:01pm |
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How very classy, ms. wonderland. |
How very white of you, was going to be my response to your initial post but I did take the classy route and I respect that about myself.
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Posted: Jun 28 2014 at 6:14pm |
Who gives a  why she slammed the door? She's grown and pays her bills so yes, occassionally a door may be slammed. He had no right to go off on her like that. Unless it's excessive and constant he should have just sat his ass in his house and dealt with it. One of the drawbacks of living in an apt instead of being a homeowner is that you have to deal with the idiosyncrasies of other tenants. If Vladimir dont like it then go live in a trailer park or try to buy a home with his fked up credit havin ass. OP why do you live in an area where you're the only black? I cant imagine that...They dont want you there at all and probably do talk about you. I know one thing, you need to look up your weapons laws in your state and get armed because I couldnt feel safe laying my head where people are so openly hostile to me b/c of the color of my skin. That man was looking for an excuse to physically attack you. If you had been less passive (not criticizing how you handled it), he would have used that as justification to hurt you physically then probably called the cops on YOU Please do me a favor and document this situation and call the landlord. But dont stop there b/c the landlord probably racist too. Tape record your conversation with the landlord and I wouldnt be mad if you took it far enough to call the police and say you felt threatened by his behavior towards you. He was verbally aggressive, in your personal space and threatened you. Girl you better than me because my inner Boomquisha would have erupted. If he thought I was gangsta before he would have had no doubt in his mind b/c I would have bucked the f up on him and been ready for whatever..I cant let nobody talk to me like that, especially a racist ass and just get away with it. Ignore these folks acting like you supposed to be some boot licking passive aunt jemima. sh*t Jim Crow days are over with, you dont have to be subservient to him
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Posted: Jun 28 2014 at 6:50pm |
sexyandfamous wrote:
Ok guys, so answer me this:
let's say one day I am absent-minded or my dog pulls too hard or I simply slam my door, and he opens his door and starts with his bullsh*t, but let's say I ignore him as many posters suggest and he again calls me a b!tch. Then what?
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If he does anything threatening, like name calling or getting in your personal space or even just raising his voice above a whisper, take out your phone and start recording. Don't say anything but "I'm recording you because I feel threatened". He'll likely stop immediately but either way you have a record of him even interacting with you. Anything he needs to say to you can and should be addressed to the landlords. Otherwise, I would pretend he doesn't exist.
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