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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 19 2014 at 3:55am
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

mom? she can have whatever she wants (go wherever...) LOL

sorry OP. sounds like a mess.GLuck


the lack of thanks indicates that HIS mama does not have whatever she wants or go whereever she wants.

if it was hers,

well...



yes I should have said 'my mom?' But   that goes w/out saying LOL


i remember when bhm once said that they would select a mate depending on how well he treats his momma

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Wth? How are you suppose to phuck your man with his mom in there?
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i remember when bhm once said that they would select a mate depending on how well he treats his momma

 
Embarrassed  ahemmm....i still feel the same.  and i'll take it one step further...may be unpopular but i also judge mofos on how they treated/treat/speak about their exes...Smile
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

mom? she can have whatever she wants (go wherever...) LOL

sorry OP. sounds like a mess.GLuck


the lack of thanks indicates that HIS mama does not have whatever she wants or go whereever she wants.

if it was hers,

well...



yes I should have said 'my mom?' But   that goes w/out saying LOL


i remember when bhm once said that they would select a mate depending on how well he treats his momma







We're going to go ahead and live in the now for the duration if this thread.
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see thats that bullsh*t

y'all wrong for that one
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Treating ur mom well and enabling her user habits, are two different things, but I know u know that.
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i remember when bhm once said that they would select a mate depending on how well he treats his momma



I wonder who said thatLOL


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Originally posted by dawills2002 dawills2002 wrote:

My boyfriend and I planned a cruise that has to be paid by july 24th. Its suppose to be me and my boyfriend, his mom, sister, cousin and his cousins wife. My boyfriends mom and sister were suppose to have their own room. However, his sister canceled and that means his mom has to be in the room with me and my man. That also means we had to move to a bigger room that cost more. We still owe $304 but the balance is owed by his mom because my boyfriend and I paid our half. Now his mom is saying shes trying to get a car and wont have all the money. She said she may have about $125 of it. Now my boyfriend is paying the remaining balance just so the cruise line wont cancel our room. My thing is his mom can barely pay bills so how she go pay for a cruise? I even had to chip in extra money for her plane ticket because she didnt have all the money. She is damn near going on this trip for free and has only paid $200 total. She always trying to go places she cant afford and inconveniences everyone else. This is the last time I will plan a vacation with her.

I see your distress and I certainly understand it.
However, are you sure your anger is properly directed?
You have been subjected to a particular pattern of behavior that has left you feeling angry, neglected, used and abused. Not a pretty picture.
But look a little deeper and you'll find that the only person to blame is you.
Your would be mother-in-law is a user. Both you and your boyfriend are enablers. 
He enables his mother's poor choices. And you enable his.
You sound like a responsible, level headed young lady.
Believe me there are mothers who would love to have such a one in their sons' lives.
The pair you currently have on your hands is not what you want in your future.
Believe in yourself and move on.
ETA: Good luck. Wish you well.

 

This is on some Iyanla Fix My Life-ish that you probably overlooked Beloved. Do your work and you will learn why you accept such behavior.
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OP, that sounds like a mess. I would definitely fork over enough money to get Mom an inside room of her own, even if I had to pay for it myself!

And it would be the very last trip I took with the two of them together. Happy birfday, merry crimmas, and happy mothers day for the rest of your life momma. Give it in love and then be done with it.

http://www.carnival.com/BookingEngine/cruise-search/?rateCode=PUG&icid=CC_PUG0721_specialshero_2474

You have already paid for her, and I'm sure you can transfer her to another room and pay the difference.


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Read everything!Approve

This would be a mother/son trip. Gimme my money back and I'll have a stay-cation at home.
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