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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

nothing I hate more than dating a man with a broke mother.  It's allllwaaaysss some sh*t.  
this sh!t right here Clap
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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Originally posted by sweetskul sweetskul wrote:

buy rum runners..when is your cruise..im going on one in October with carnival for a Halloween cruise 
 
What is this halloween cruise? ShockedI love Halloween, my fave non-holiday of the year.
 
Maysay gave good advice, OP check out the cruise forums too
im all up in those cruise forums...a Halloween cruise is basically any cruise that is sailing during Halloween carnival has a Halloween party and give away prizes im not sure if any other cruise ships does this but i would think so 
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She's one of those mamas who think she entitled.
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

nothing I hate more than dating a man with a broke mother.  It's allllwaaaysss some sh*t.  

You saved me from typing my unpopular opinion. Thanked!

(was gonna say broke and manless tho)

Edited by lanae - Jul 17 2014 at 11:58pm
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Originally posted by dawills2002 dawills2002 wrote:

My boyfriend and I planned a cruise that has to be paid by july 24th. Its suppose to be me and my boyfriend, his mom, sister, cousin and his cousins wife. My boyfriends mom and sister were suppose to have their own room. However, his sister canceled and that means his mom has to be in the room with me and my man. That also means we had to move to a bigger room that cost more. We still owe $304 but the balance is owed by his mom because my boyfriend and I paid our half. Now his mom is saying shes trying to get a car and wont have all the money. She said she may have about $125 of it. Now my boyfriend is paying the remaining balance just so the cruise line wont cancel our room. My thing is his mom can barely pay bills so how she go pay for a cruise? I even had to chip in extra money for her plane ticket because she didnt have all the money. She is damn near going on this trip for free and has only paid $200 total. She always trying to go places she cant afford and inconveniences everyone else. This is the last time I will plan a vacation with her.

I see your distress and I certainly understand it.
However, are you sure your anger is properly directed?
You have been subjected to a particular pattern of behavior that has left you feeling angry, neglected, used and abused. Not a pretty picture.
But look a little deeper and you'll find that the only person to blame is you.
Your would be mother-in-law is a user. Both you and your boyfriend are enablers. 
He enables his mother's poor choices. And you enable his.
You sound like a responsible, level headed young lady.
Believe me there are mothers who would love to have such a one in their sons' lives.
The pair you currently have on your hands is not what you want in your future.
Believe in yourself and move on.
ETA: Good luck. Wish you well.

 


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Mama should be ashamed of herself but your boyfriend should've told his Mama next time around or he would be going with her and I would stay home.
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Mama is a bum and he is an enabler. This has a high possibility of not ending well. If not just for the trip, in general. 

Why would she even want to be there in the same room? How inconsiderate. SMH.
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OP, I read some of your previous threads.... is this the boyfriend you have been dating for over a decade? The one whose sister lived with you?

If your answer is yes, I am not sure why you are even bothering to go to this cruise. After so long with him, you are not his wife and his mom has shown that she is trouble and will continue to be a burden in your life. Cut him loose.

I hope you answer no to my question, but either way, I don't think he is worth being with because he can't say no to mommy. When his sister bailed out, he should have told his mom that he could not afford her ticket without burdening you with most of the house's bills for this month.

Mamas' boys are not worth it.

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Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope! 

Mama better build a dinghy and take a cruise in a lake.
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Originally posted by rell85 rell85 wrote:

Damn mama gets no love.


Cry

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