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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 17 2014 at 3:25pm
Has she addressed the cousins wife yet
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 17 2014 at 3:25pm
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

I hope yall get free food on the boat. Aint nuttin worse than folk with lil to no spendin money on a trip..talking bout we dont need to eat out we can hit the store and use the microwave and mini frig.fuc u and yo hot pockets
 
food is included on cruises i think...never been on one...i think they may be azzed on the likka tip tho. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 17 2014 at 3:26pm
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

TC I'd be pissed that his momma still tryna go....and finds it acceptable to bunk with a young couple....people that play dumb like that piss me off....like have some decency and say.....I will stay home.....yall enjoy the trip....
 
i get it.  but it appears this is something op contributed to as well...why would she 'put on for his moms plane ticket?  i'm just saying....she has said this woman has been this way for years.  the son obviously puts up with it...be mad at him...

Right...I said nip that in the bid....she one missed bill from moving in with y'all.....yall just don't know.....
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Have yall ever borrowed his mama car? And did u ever cuss out his sis via text?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 17 2014 at 3:26pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:


They didn't use bill money to cover THEIR part......they used it to cover his moms.....their part was covered without compromising their bills.....





The fact that they had to use bill money for anything other than bills is a financial red flag that says they can't afford the trip.

But apparently we'll have to agree to disagree on that part. Their financial priorities aren't in order but that's really none of my business.




Girl you can't just say....I misread.....they haven't even missed a bill payment.....she covered the bills....so technically their bills are still up to date.....




I didn't say they missed a bill.

My interpretation is just different than yours. They share bills. He had to take his portion of the bill money to pay the balance. OP had to cover the rest of the bills. Since they share bills, if he can't afford it, she can't afford, the household can't afford it.

My point is, clearly there is a money issue in their household. Using bill money, and not  vacation fund or fun money, is a red flag. Financial priorities are skewed.

But that's just how I feel about it. We don't agree and that's cool.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 17 2014 at 3:27pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

TC I'd be pissed that his momma still tryna go....and finds it acceptable to bunk with a young couple....people that play dumb like that piss me off....like have some decency and say.....I will stay home.....yall enjoy the trip....
 
i get it.  but it appears this is something op contributed to as well...why would she 'put on for his moms plane ticket?  i'm just saying....she has said this woman has been this way for years.  the son obviously puts up with it...be mad at him...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 17 2014 at 3:28pm
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yes...i like family vacays as well.  and i wouldn't have not one prollem with my man paying for his mom.  and depending i might be ok with the mom staying in the room with he and i.  depending.  lol
 
i'm just not understanding why she is so vexed with his mom...


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 17 2014 at 3:28pm
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Has she addressed the cousins wife yet
 
the way i read it...the cousin and his wife are going together....let me go reread....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 17 2014 at 3:32pm
Since you already got the room, invite your mom, too.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 17 2014 at 3:32pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:


They didn't use bill money to cover THEIR part......they used it to cover his moms.....their part was covered without compromising their bills.....





The fact that they had to use bill money for anything other than bills is a financial red flag that says they can't afford the trip.

But apparently we'll have to agree to disagree on that part. Their financial priorities aren't in order but that's really none of my business.




Girl you can't just say....I misread.....they haven't even missed a bill payment.....she covered the bills....so technically their bills are still up to date.....




I didn't say they missed a bill.

My interpretation is just different than yours. They share bills. He had to take his portion of the bill money to pay the balance. OP had to cover the rest of the bills. Since they share bills, if he can't afford it, she can't afford, the household can't afford it.

My point is, clearly there is a money issue in their household. Using bill money, and not  vacation fund or fun money, is a red flag. Financial priorities are skewed.

But that's just how I feel about it. We don't agree and that's cool.
 
well...it's very possible her income is more than his resulting in her having more discretionary income left over after the bills are split...


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