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It don't matter what she need it for....she need not be asking for you for it.  Her lack of funds is not your problem.  You are there for her child only. No shade.  Like other posters have mentioned...document the situation and point her in the right direction if she's having trouble with her bills.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Bonjour baby ooowee Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 3:24pm
i learned this last yr, was helping EVERYONE i could mostly monetarily, noticed they weren't & haven't helped meConfused & im talkin when i REALLY needed it...soooo once i realized i was being gullable i cut it the fukkkk outLOL  i killed gullableLOL now i make SURE to help me 1st & don't send more than 25 bucks STRESSING that's all i can afford IF i even do that Wink yeah it REALLY hurt my soul to see i'd been being used however im now able to help with advice/ a way the person can legally get it/ and keep it movin without gettin or feelin burnedThumbs Up
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Just make sure you are really careful about how you handle this.

I've seen some vindictive parents get mad and then make false allegations of inappropriate conduct of the mentor toward the child.

Unfortunately, I'd cut off all contact and handle it through proper channels.
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