PERSONALLY I have been in situations were I'm trying to Help....someone....yet their family view me as.....Sunshine the "fat" cat with money to burn, so they begged me to DEATH.
I thought I was helping to later discover....that everyone was "in" on the joke but ME....
I hate to say this but sometimes, the child is in on the plan also. They are in the house and hear what their parents plan to do.
There are some people out here that are just plain users....they will use you and TAKE, TAKE, TAKE....then later call you "stupid" or I'm just using her,etc.
NOW....when I'm asked...I .Look them straight in the EYE...and say...I'd love to help but I just don't
I could have a million dollars in my purse, but I don't have it to GIVE YOU!!!