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    Posted: May 16 2008 at 2:40am
CryI'm terrified that I might be pregnant.  I'm taking a test tommorrow just to be sure.  The actual pregnancy isn't scaring me now,  it's the fact I might have to tell my mother.  She's already said that if I ever get pregnant she'd just die.  I'm 21, so I won't be a teen mother,but I just cringe when I think of all the people I know and how'd they will look at me, like I'm a failure.  My boyfriend doesn't think I am, but if I was he'd be happy.  I don't know.  I accept full responsibility of my actions, there's no excuse in that.  It's my mom, I can't do this to her.  I can't believe I was that stupid to make such a huge mistake.... I just know everybody is going to look down on me for being an uneducated, unmarried mother.  *Sigh* I'm so scared...Cry
 
Has anyone gone through this?  How did your mother react?
 
Any responses would help.
 
Sorry I just needed to let this out...


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 16 2008 at 6:39am

Anika, it will be ok. I was a teen mom and yes, my parents were upset, but they were very supportive. You are NOT a failure!! Having a baby, even when it's not planned, is not the end of the world. I finished high school and college. Yes, it will make things a little more complicated, but YOU CAN DO IT!! If I could do it at 16, you can definitely do it at 21.

My mom refused to let me go to one of those pregnant teen schools, I had to work and pay for childcare and I had to grow up REAL fast. In the end, it actually brought me and my mom closer. I know she says she will die, but it will only be temporary. She'll revive and a few months into the pregnancy you'll wonder if she's gone mad with all the baby stuff she's bought.

Keep your chin up!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 18 2008 at 10:36pm
Smilethanks Dimepiece, I appreciate it.  Well I found out I'm not pregnant.  A relief.  But thanks you so much for your words they helped alot.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 18 2008 at 11:30pm

^^^That is a big relief that you are not pregors! Did you tell your mom or  were you going to wait until you get your results back?



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 21 2008 at 1:20am
lol wasn't telling her anything until i knew for sure.  Talk about a relief.  i've never been so scared in my life.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 23 2008 at 11:30pm
Originally posted by *Anika* *Anika* wrote:

lol wasn't telling her anything until i knew for sure.  Talk about a relief.  i've never been so scared in my life.
 
Girl that a big relief if I was in your shoes I would have been scare as well ! LOL cause that is a big change that would effect your whole life!  
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