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Originally posted by Im_oh_so_hott Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

I'm sitting here thinking of all the people who can't afford to have kids and all the ones that are too busy. A cop can't have children ... firefighters, postal workers, nurses, paralegals hmmm, and doctors and lawyers are too busy. Only Singers/Athletes and i guess the Kardashians can have kids.

it doesnt have to be like that IOSH. What societies should do is time the conception of kids so a certain amount of workers (male and female) ALL go off the job for 3-4 years to raise kids and then the non kid having workers pick up the slack and then they switch back! doing it this way will lessens the need for all those workers too, less people over all eventually.ClapClap
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


once again only the wealthy and those that choose to live in poverty and make it without govt assistance should have kids

the rest......tough sh*t




I am not sure I understand this comment.

But I do believe that once you decide to have a child, you are able to   provide.
Even if a person is on Gov't assistance they can be present emotionally and physically as a parent.   

There are some people I know that are on assistance, and do a great job, but the kids do suffer the consequence because of the stress the parent is undergoing unless they are multi dimensional.

Wealth does not equal love. Some wealthy folks can afford child care, but the only love their child/children get is from the caregiver...eg Nanny/Housekeeper/babysitter


I apologize in advance if I am misunderstanding your post.
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Originally posted by Benni Benni wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


once again only the wealthy and those that choose to live in poverty and make it without govt assistance should have kids

the rest......tough sh*t




I am not sure I understand this comment.

But I do believe that once you decide to have a child, you are able to   provide.
Even if a person is on Gov't assistance they can be present emotionally and physically as a parent.   

There are some people I know that are on assistance, and do a great job, but the kids do suffer the consequence because of the stress the parent is undergoing unless they are multi dimensional.

Wealth does not equal love. Some wealthy folks can afford child care, but the only love their child/children get is from the caregiver...eg Nanny/Housekeeper/babysitter


I apologize in advance if I am misunderstanding your post.


She was summarizing maysay's view of the topic.
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:


Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


depends on what you want in life

save by living in a sh*tty neighborhood so your income goes further and you can stay at home

or
live in a good neighborhood where the schools are highly rated, low
crime and great appreciation values but work so you can afford to live
there and be able to afford daycare



People live all sorts of lives.

I
read the blog of someone who retired in their 30's on an engineer's
salary, lives in a great neighborhood in colorado, beautiful home, eats
great food, takes vacations, has a child, and spends 25k for a family of
3 including a child in a good public school.

People prioritize different things. It's possible to live well and not have a high income.




need more info

do they benefit from generational wealth?

how much did they retire on?

how much do they get in interest each year?

did they have school loans?


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Originally posted by JasmineE02 JasmineE02 wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by JasmineE02 JasmineE02 wrote:

I'll send my dog to doggy daycare too. 
*Calls ASPCA*

I'm going to put a bowtie on him on his first day of doggy day care. 
No doggy shoes to complete the ensemble? Fashion crime! *dials aspca*GeekLOL
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Originally posted by Benni Benni wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


once again only the wealthy and those that choose to live in poverty and make it without govt assistance should have kids

the rest......tough sh*t




I am not sure I understand this comment.

But I do believe that once you decide to have a child, you are able to   provide.
Even if a person is on Gov't assistance they can be present emotionally and physically as a parent.   

There are some people I know that are on assistance, and do a great job, but the kids do suffer the consequence because of the stress the parent is undergoing unless they are multi dimensional.

Wealth does not equal love. Some wealthy folks can afford child care, but the only love their child/children get is from the caregiver...eg Nanny/Housekeeper/babysitter


I apologize in advance if I am misunderstanding your post.


I was summing up maysay's posts
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


depends on what you want in life

save by living in a sh*tty neighborhood so your income goes further and you can stay at home

or live in a good neighborhood where the schools are highly rated, low crime and great appreciation values but work so you can afford to live there and be able to afford daycare



People live all sorts of lives.

I read the blog of someone who retired in their 30's on an engineer's salary, lives in a great neighborhood in colorado, beautiful home, eats great food, takes vacations, has a child, and spends 25k for a family of 3 including a child in a good public school.

People prioritize different things. It's possible to live well and not have a high income.


So do you believe the people who don't have a high income and don't have beautiful homes with plenty of vacations are in that situation because they don't have good priorities?
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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Originally posted by Im_oh_so_hott Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

I'm sitting here thinking of all the people who can't afford to have kids and all the ones that are too busy. A cop can't have children ... firefighters, postal workers, nurses, paralegals hmmm, and doctors and lawyers are too busy. Only Singers/Athletes and i guess the Kardashians can have kids.


it doesnt have to be like that IOSH. What societies should do is time the conception of kids so a certain amount of workers (male and female) ALL go off the job for 3-4 years to raise kids and then the non kid having workers pick up the slack and then they switch back! doing it this way will lessens the need for all those workers too, less people over all eventually.ClapClap


I don't think that would ever happen, if it did happen somewhere, it definitely wouldn't go down in the US.

I forgot to put teachers on the list of people who can't have kids.
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my brother worked at mcdonalds when he was in high school. he said he'd never eat micky d's ever again after working there. that's how i feel about daycare centers.

but like i said, pop in and be a looming presence. they'll treat your child better than the others cause they never know when you gone show up. just an fyi
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Don't say you were summing up my points because I never said any of those things and I made that very clear.
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