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even if you can afford to take 5 years off who is to say you will even find a good job in the same field right away once you are ready to work again?
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good point, samone. 

i'm listening and trying to understand everyone's pov. i won't allow myself to be a hard headLOL
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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

awww, benni. you adopted! that's freaking awesome!

i guess that's my thing too though. i feel like there are so many kids in the world already who need love and care that its not necessary for me to have children of my own. 

this is where my bias comes from. i admit that it is a bias. i don't judge others but this is a good discussion nonetheless. 






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Originally posted by JasmineE02 JasmineE02 wrote:

I'll send my dog to doggy daycare too. 
*Calls ASPCA*
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lol

but what are children for though? are they for our amusement like a puppy? i don't know. 

i been dranking. 


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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


maybe people should quit their jobs

live in poverty but be able to spend 24 hours with their kids

f 401ks, IRAs, college funds and savings
 
huh?  kids aren't lil kids forever.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


thing is saying daycare is bad for all kids applies to all scenarios


There are two schools of thought on this.

Yes, some people who provide daycare are in it just for the money.

Others do it because of the income while providing love and care.

Research...

Grandparents can be very GRAND !!!
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I have done some research and grandparents are not childcare professionals

well at least let me see their curriculum and the child development classes they have completed, along with some psych classes and experience with more than a few kids
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Off topic, seeing the stats on how many other countries pay much less for home internet access made me sad.

Evil Smile i wont even tell you the cost of a weave, or to have the plumber come over

school= glorified daycare, they just teach you something to take up the time

Mommy Diane went back after 3 months or so i think i turned out right. We were so rich I had a live-in nanny.  i went to kindergarten at 2 years old that is the norm out here. 2-3 for K1.


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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


maybe people should quit their jobs

live in poverty but be able to spend 24 hours with their kids

f 401ks, IRAs, college funds and savings

 
huh?  kids aren't lil kids forever.


no they aren't

but this comes from other related threads

and tbh if daycare is terrible, how is sending them off to school for 8 hours a day any better?
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