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I'll send my dog to doggy daycare too. 
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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

you think procreation is necessary, benni? 


In the sense that we will carry on in genealogy or continuing life on earth.... Yes.   

I adopted a child because I was told I was unable to bear a child.

I only did it after I was married, earning an income that was conducive to adding to my household with ease.

Not only being able to financially support the child, but spending quality time with him, and nurturing him to become the best person he can be.   In this case someone else did the procreating.

Some men just want 'extension' of themselves .

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awww, benni. you adopted! that's freaking awesome!

i guess that's my thing too though. i feel like there are so many kids in the world already who need love and care that its not necessary for me to have children of my own. 

this is where my bias comes from. i admit that it is a bias. i don't judge others but this is a good discussion nonetheless. 
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even if you can afford to take 5 years off who is to say you will even find a good job in the same field right away once you are ready to work again?
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good point, samone. 

i'm listening and trying to understand everyone's pov. i won't allow myself to be a hard headLOL
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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

awww, benni. you adopted! that's freaking awesome!

i guess that's my thing too though. i feel like there are so many kids in the world already who need love and care that its not necessary for me to have children of my own. 

this is where my bias comes from. i admit that it is a bias. i don't judge others but this is a good discussion nonetheless. 






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Originally posted by JasmineE02 JasmineE02 wrote:

I'll send my dog to doggy daycare too. 
*Calls ASPCA*
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lol

but what are children for though? are they for our amusement like a puppy? i don't know. 

i been dranking. 


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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


maybe people should quit their jobs

live in poverty but be able to spend 24 hours with their kids

f 401ks, IRAs, college funds and savings
 
huh?  kids aren't lil kids forever.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


thing is saying daycare is bad for all kids applies to all scenarios


There are two schools of thought on this.

Yes, some people who provide daycare are in it just for the money.

Others do it because of the income while providing love and care.

Research...

Grandparents can be very GRAND !!!
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