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yep

a couple can make 150k or more with little debt and still put their kids in daycare
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Having children is a choice. It's not an accident, you're not being forced, it's not a medical or any other type of necessity.

If you can't afford to have them without putting them in daycare, then don't have them.

Simple.
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once again only the wealthy and those that choose to live in poverty and make it without govt assistance should have kids

the rest......tough sh*t
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That's someone else's choice.
If the parents aren't complaining and the children are happy and healthy.

It really doesn't matter what Maysay or anybody else thinks
But that goes without saying
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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

maybe i'm thinking about worse case scenarios. 

do yall think a married couple for example, living in a one bedroom apt with student loans out the ying yang, barely making enough to pay their cell phone bills should PLAN to have a child under those circumstances?




Under these circumstances it makes sense to wait.

The stress will put a big strain on the marriage.



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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


once again only the wealthy and those that choose to live in poverty and make it without govt assistance should have kids

the rest......tough sh*t


I never said any of those things.

I said wait until you can afford to be a good parent. Which includes not having a daycare worker rear your child. And that can be done at any income level, it's all about priorities.


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I'll wait to afford to be a good parent...and send them to daycare. 
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i dunno. 

i guess like if i wanted to get a puppy which i do so badlyCry (not equating puppys with children though) i know it would be wise to wait until i at least have one foot outside the door at my job cause i'm not around enough to care for it. 

i keep trying to convince my ma to keep a puppy for me when i'm away and she's like hell naw. mama mean. i want a puppy now LOL

i'm rambling
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depends on what you want in life

save by living in a sh*tty neighborhood so your income goes further and you can stay at home

or live in a good neighborhood where the schools are highly rated, low crime and great appreciation values but work so you can afford to live there and be able to afford daycare



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how much does it cost to be a good parent?

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