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my girlfriend is still breast feeding her 1 year and 2 month old.  i told her it was time to cut the cord.  that baby fondling her nipples now...
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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


daycare is expensive anyway

well good ones........

many stay home because they cannot afford to send their kids to one

girl I know had twins and daycare would have been $3500 each month for them, a family member watches her kids


This is actually what I see most, women who stay home because almost their entire paycheck would go to daycare anyway so there's no point.

so theyre home and prolly pissed at the child half the timeLOL
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

hmmmm as for breastfeeding i'd have a hard time believing a study which suggest that formula is on par with breast milk.  i mean unless the mom has the absolute worst nutrition in the world, i'm not buying it...
Wait wut? Was the study conducted by Similac? Gerber?LOL
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


daycare is expensive anyway

well good ones........

many stay home because they cannot afford to send their kids to one

girl I know had twins and daycare would have been $3500 each month for them, a family member watches her kids


This is actually what I see most, women who stay home because almost their entire paycheck would go to daycare anyway so there's no point.

so theyre home and prolly pissed at the child half the timeLOL
 
if being at home with their child makes them pissed at the child...that's horrible, imo...
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

hmmmm as for breastfeeding i'd have a hard time believing a study which suggest that formula is on par with breast milk.  i mean unless the mom has the absolute worst nutrition in the world, i'm not buying it...


this. ridic.
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


daycare is expensive anyway

well good ones........

many stay home because they cannot afford to send their kids to one

girl I know had twins and daycare would have been $3500 each month for them, a family member watches her kids


This is actually what I see most, women who stay home because almost their entire paycheck would go to daycare anyway so there's no point.

so theyre home and prolly pissed at the child half the timeLOL
 
if being at home with their child makes them pissed at the child...that's horrible, imo...

well, not necessesarily directly pissed at the child, but needing the money to help support the child and not being able to work because daycare is too expensive must cause some level of frustration which may end up being taken out on the child...
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Some of the ideas expressed in this thread are so baffling to me.

ikr. but we are all our own brand of special...so...
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


The VPs (women) at my company have kids (some with grandkids) and their children seem to be okay (I don't know them personally, but they aren't strung out or anything lol)

I know this isn't the case for every family, but people make it work

i cant believe in 2014 people are talking like you cant have a family and a job at the same time, and be balanced. take me to the eutopia where that isnt possible
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Originally posted by LovesHim LovesHim wrote:

My LO (little one) will be 6 months when I return to work in August.... 
I would love to be able to SAH with him or work part-time but it's not currently an option. 
I knew this when we decided to TTC (try to conceive)... 
However I choose a career that I thought would be family friendly (education)
I work 10 months out of a year... yeah for summer breaks
He will attend daycare while we are at work like many other children..
I'm sure I will be sad at each drop off and miss his smile and laugh during the day... sighhhhh 
Unfortunately that's our reality 


you will be fine after the second week. the other little ones at DC chant "campfire, campfire, campfire" when i take her in the mornings, and she sqeuals, wriggles out of my arms, and dashes off to greet her friends. Warms my heart. Embarrassed
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

hmmmm as for breastfeeding i'd have a hard time believing a study which suggest that formula is on par with breast milk.  i mean unless the mom has the absolute worst nutrition in the world, i'm not buying it...


this. ridic.
 
Right, I saw the comment about this "study" and knew that wasn't true. Breastfeeding is recommended for 12 months of life and the several evidence based reliable studies can be easily found via google.  I know in the NICU if the infant is below 32 weeks all we feed them is breastmilk because of the benefits. If the mom won't or cant supply the breastmilk we give them donor breastmilk so formula isn't even an option.
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