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I never said anything about being with your child all the time.

0-5 are extremely important years.

If y'all want to spend most of your time away from the children you love so much during their formative years then cool. Do you.

I don't have to think it's good or right.



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My family has a daycare I don't have no problem dropping them off.
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i thought there was member on here who owned a daycare....
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I'm going to explain to my toddler what school loans are, how interest works on said loans and what happens when mommy and daddy don't pay up. I'll also explain what bills are, how mommy gets paid statistically less because she has a vagina and is Black so she has less money to save up to take time off and care for them. Imma keep it real!ApproveLOL

j/k y'all.

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Lol at babies being awake from 9-5 and sleep the other 16 hours.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


you say all this yet don't give a damn about maternity leave lol


I made it 100% clear that I think EVERYONE should have leave, including parents.


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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

I never said anything about being with your child all the time.

0-5 are extremely important years.

If y'all want to spend most of your time away from the children you love so much during their formative years then cool. Do you.

I don't have to think it's good or right.





want?

it's called earning an income for your family


Yes want. Having a child is a want. You don't have to do it. If you choose to do it, then you have to make some decisions about your work/life balance.

So yes, if you have a child knowing that you don't want to or can't quit working then that's on you. You don't have to have a child in the first place. So therefore you are actively choosing to spend that time away from your child.

Still, people are free to do whatever they want, child be damned. So good for you.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


by the way, this applies to fathers too right?


I wanted to ask that about 20 mins ago but decided not to.LOL
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Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

i thought there was member on here who owned a daycare....

I think it's Mzmee.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:



you said parents should not be treated like special group



Exactly.

Every worker should get personal leave for whatever they want. If a company says only mothers get an extra 6 weeks of leave then I have a problem with that. Everyone should be able to have that extra 6 weeks, parents, nonparents, women, men, whatever.

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