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I'm surprised you are okay with them living in poverty


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[QUOTE=purpulicious01]And since we all are sharing our personal experiences...

I plan to put my career on hold when I become a mom so I can stay home with my kids (And "boredom" isn't a word in my vocabulary because my kids and I will frequent the zoo, parks, museums, stay active, go outside, etc, cause we gangstas like that).


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I agree...i don't get how mothers say they were "bored" while at home with their kids... My mom would take us everywhere and during that time we also took swim classes which im glad she did. More kids should learn how to swim before they start school.

But i think it goes back to having kids because you actually want them vs having kids bc thats what society says....
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I would be bored with kids all day.
No thanks.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:



I'm surprised you are okay with them living in poverty


Well that's because they are able to take care of themselves and their children without outside help. Having a low-income doesn't mean you are lacking.

They generally have no debt and very few expenses. They live frugally and tend to be anti-consumerist, buying secondhand, using coupons, reduced price things, craigslist, recycling, etc. so that they can spend on the things they find most important.

They tend to prioritize being able to spend time with their children and having different experiences so they don't waste money on things like eating out or cable or buying brand new clothes, etc.
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Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

[QUOTE=purpulicious01]And since we all are sharing our personal experiences...

I plan to put my career on hold when I become a mom so I can stay home with my kids (And "boredom" isn't a word in my vocabulary because my kids and I will frequent the zoo, parks, museums, stay active, go outside, etc, cause we gangstas like that).


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I agree...i don't get how mothers say they were "bored" while at home with their kids... My mom would take us everywhere and during that time we also took swim classes which im glad she did. More kids should learn how to swim before they start school.

But i think it goes back to having kids because you actually want them vs having kids bc thats what society says....

There is no way to keep them busy ALLL day, I'm sure your mom got bored sitting at activities. 
My baby is taking swimming lessons this summer thugh Cool
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Oh, and I want kids.
I also want them to have experiences with friends, family, activities outside of me and I want the same for myself.
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yeah they need that targeted purposeful learning BEFORE kindergarten

You can do that at home but most would need help with teaching skills and the curriculum and early childhood learning/psychology fundamentals etc


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you also have to think about women that go school and get advanced degrees

many are finished around age 25 - 27 (maybe a little older)

you then need to get out there and start your career......oh but you should have a man first so yall can either be on your way to marriage, married, or very committed to each other

maybe you can get in 4 to 5 years of work before you start thinking about your clock and high risk pregnancies

if you want to continue with your career (whether yall need the income or not) you will have to think about having a family member or daycare center watch your child

now some have kids while in school and that's a whole other story

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This is how education would look in my house, so I'll leave it to the professionals. LOL  
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