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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by Bribby Bribby wrote:

We pay $300 every 2 weeks. They must have more than one child?


it's like $400 a week for one child where I live

Dang a week? It's 141 but that's only MWF, 191 for All week and that's at a reputable daycare.
I know people who pay about 100 a week but at a no name place


Originally posted by LovesHim LovesHim wrote:

So you are a bad/irresponsible parent if you purposely have kids knowing they will have to go to daycare???

Are you all being realistic or nah??? 


 

& when you got pregnant by accident and it wasn't planned and you HAVE to put them in daycare because you have no other option
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I actually think big name daycare are worse.
Id rather a small one with 3 or 4 children at most.

I know one that still has a curriculum and the works but keeps the number small so there can be concentrated special care..

I would hate to take my baby to a big time daycare where they are just one of the herd
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Yes, it's irresponsible. Deliberately choosing to have a child you have no other choice but to put in daycare most of the time isn't right. Just like you're a bad parent if you bring a child into this world knowing you're a drug addict, or homeless, or your SO beats you, or you don't have a way to feed the child.

And pregnancies are not accidents. If you have sex, even if it's protected, you are accepting the possibility that you may get pregnant.

But folks do what they want to do, everyone else, child included, be damned.
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Day care = drug addict.

.... And I died

Keep going maysay
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Yes, it's irresponsible. Deliberately choosing to have a child you have no other choice but to put in daycare most of the time isn't right. Just like you're a bad parent if you bring a child into this world knowing you're a drug addict, or homeless, or your SO beats you, or you don't have a way to feed the child.

And pregnancies are not accidents. If you have sex, even if it's protected, you are accepting the possibility that you may get pregnant.

But folks do what they want to do, everyone else, child included, be damned.

And people who are raped? ...yeah. OH WELL it happens everyday so whatever.

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I actually think big name daycare are worse. 
Id rather a small one with 3 or 4 children at most. 

I know one that still has a curriculum and the works but keeps the number small so there can be concentrated special care.. 

I would hate to take my baby to a big time daycare where they are just one of the herd

True well on my side of town which is a nicer side (& predominately mexican or white), I saw that it would be more diverse place for my daughter and I can trust she's in a nice facility, and they won't do anything to let there reputable name be dragged down. 

It all depends on the person and going to actually visit the places.



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It's one to six most places for children.
One to 3 for infants.

But I really wouldn't want too many ppl around.

So I would only want one care giver not all this ppl and at the bigger places there are usually more than one.


I'm biased I worked at a nice daycare at the end of high school for a little while.
Those ppl paid good money for subpar treatment.


I don't like daycares really as a rule
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Lol. I live in a world where I expect people to demonstrate a modicum of forethought before they make life changing decisions. I guess that's bizarro.
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I'd bring kids into this world knowing that they'd be going to daycare.  I'd bring kids into this world knowing that I'm not homeschooling them.  I might even feed them a chicken nugget or two...from the freezer! *irresponsible as f*ck* Cool
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I don't like daycares with multiple care givers.

I wish I wanted to live near my SO's mom
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