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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i can rationalize why someone might feel disgust for some of these but what's disgusting about number 2 or 6...2 can happen with adoption as well.


To have a child just so they can have your name is so dumb it disgusts me.

And 6, 6 is just a lie. Most of existence today is not a joy. And people are deliberately bringing children into situations that are not only less than joyful but are HORRIBLE.

if your family sucks and offers nothing to society in general then i can see why number 2 is useless, but i think this is more so people who are proud of their family, values, and accomplishments and want to bring more good into the world.

as far as 6, life is more good than bad.  people who have that philosophy will probably produce well adjusted kids.  i'm pretty cynical, but i want to give kids the best experiences life has to offer.

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My daughter is the best thing that ever happen in my life . I am going get things taken care of for health reasons , unless God gives me another without trying . Children born at 50+ run high in my family . I am going to adopt next year . I can't speak on the lady until next week . Daycare is a small fortune .

 My daughter school tuition for toddlers start at 1,200 a month for toddlers to attend for 4 hours  , but many are advance by the time they reach kindergarten . My cousin wife quit her job and open a daycare with the vacant house next to her . I can't believe how my cousin attach the 2 homes together .
 
 Bonnie can walk from the main house to the daycare . The woman made a fortune from nothing , but she will only take welfare or state funding to avoid not gettting paid . I would love to open a center for seniors .
  
PS .. Bonnie hires people that must do community service to take of the basics like meals . The daughter quit her job to work with mom . The woman is making a fortune . Illnois law requires all welfare folk to attend school or work after 3 months .


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Life is waaaaayyy more good than bad.
Not even close
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Maysay I'm not going to go back and forth with you. I wholeheartedly disagree with most of your views on parenting. My views on the middle class aren't limited to day care expenses.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Life is waaaaayyy more good than bad.
Not even close


Not to everybody.
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Life is waaaaayyy more good than bad.
Not even close


Not to everybody.


When it comes to having children I would be thinking about my existence and those close to me.
I wouldn't consider everyone in the world tbh
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of course not for everybody, but generally.  if you're a person going into having a child for that reason i imagine that you plan to provide a reasonably comfortable life and strong support system to them.  you can't help things like diseases.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Life is waaaaayyy more good than bad.
Not even close


Not to everybody.


When it comes to having children I would be thinking about my existence and those close to me.
I wouldn't consider everyone in the world tbh


I agree but I thought you were making a general statement about life as a whole. Privilege can play a huge part in the quality of life.
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no such thing as creating a perfect world for your kids

no matter how much love, support and money you have
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i can rationalize why someone might feel disgust for some of these but what's disgusting about number 2 or 6...2 can happen with adoption as well.


To have a child just so they can have your name is so dumb it disgusts me.

And 6, 6 is just a lie. Most of existence today is not a joy. And people are deliberately bringing children into situations that are not only less than joyful but are HORRIBLE.

if your family sucks and offers nothing to society in general then i can see why number 2 is useless, but i think this is more so people who are proud of their family, values, and accomplishments and want to bring more good into the world.

as far as 6, life is more good than bad.  people who have that philosophy will probably produce well adjusted kids.  i'm pretty cynical, but i want to give kids the best experiences life has to offer.



People change their names all the time. Get married, convert to Islam, decide they now want to be Princess Sunshine Daughter of the Wildflowers Wind and Rain.

And most people complain about not having enough...enough jobs, money, housing, food, free time, friends, good relationships, safety, etc. I don't see how people want to bring kids into that.
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