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I see what she was getting at but i disagree
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I think if you have a baby, and that baby has to spend more time with other people than its own parents, then yeah, you shouldn't have had that baby in the first place.


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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I heard this comment today while at lunch and it mad me think of the hair braiding thread...


The lady who made the comment is well to do and a stay at home mother.
She doesn't feel anyone should be tending to her kids but her and her husband. Also if parents can't afford to have one stay home they can't afford children.

You agree?

This made me think of other things that children might go to as well where a parent might not be all the time



That's not practical.
And, unless there are other kids in the house, kids need other kids to be properly socialised among their peers.

Unless she is paying for other people's daycare, I'm gonna have to help her to a plastic seat, thanks. 

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I guess....
I never went to daycare....that's what grandparents are for.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

if you can't afford daycare knowing you need it then...good luck bc it's about to be real hard.


I don't think that's in the context of what she means.

You can afford daycare but can't afford to be a stay at home mom or you don't want to..

She is anti working mother bc she feels it hurts the children

she said if you can't afford to have one parent stay home then you shouldn't have children...that's why i brought up affording it.  I don't think there's anything wrong with sending a child to daycare bc it's an opportunity to learn and socialize early.  I agree w Kotton Kandy though, i'm staying home the first 3 years if i'm not single.


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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I don't think you need to be a helicopter parent to be a good one.

If that's the case parents who send their children to school are bad parents too.
Lord knows the things that can happen there.

well, there you goLOL
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I've been at home with baby for 4 months and i'm bored as hell....

I'm going back to work for my sanity


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i'm not having kids of my own but i'd really like to adopt. i've done tons of research and was really close to setting up an appointment to speak with an agency but i just can't afford it and don't have the time to dedicate to raising a child right now. 

anyway, this is my personal philosophy (not having kids if i need daycare) but it's none of my business what other people do. 

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my mom raised my sister's kids. They were lucky. Wish i had that, but people do pass from this life, unfortunately. Forestfire and I have to work to pay those things called bills, so, daycare it is. She is well adjusted and happy. I'm good with that.

You don't need to be with a child 24 hours per day to properly raise/care for them.

Would it be better to stay at home if it were possible? Of course. Should people who are perfectly capable of taking care of their children not have any because they cant stay home?
Nope.


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Women that think like that end up real salty when they divorce
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