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    Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 7:12pm
I heard this comment today while at lunch and it mad me think of the hair braiding thread...


The lady who made the comment is well to do and a stay at home mother.
She doesn't feel anyone should be tending to her kids but her and her husband. Also if parents can't afford to have one stay home they can't afford children.

You agree?

This made me think of other things that children might go to as well where a parent might not be all the time



Edited by jonesable - Jun 04 2014 at 7:15pm
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Well you know I totally agree.
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No, that's stuoid as . Not everyone can be a stay at home mom. Nor should they be.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ModelessDiva Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 7:14pm

i thought this a few years ago...not sure if i feel this way now...
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if you can't afford daycare knowing you need it then...good luck bc it's about to be real hard.

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I don't think you need to be a helicopter parent to be a good one.

If that's the case parents who send their children to school are bad parents too.
Lord knows the things that can happen there.
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LOL no.. fckin ridiculous
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I always made it clear when I have a baby, I'm staying at home until my baby is at least 3 (they need interaction with other kids). So the men I chose had to make enough for me to stay at home. But I dont agree..
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote jonesable Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 7:18pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

if you can't afford daycare knowing you need it then...good luck bc it's about to be real hard.


I don't think that's in the context of what she means.

You can afford daycare but can't afford to be a stay at home mom or you don't want to..

She is anti working mother bc she feels it hurts the children
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