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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 8:00pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

I really don't understand having a baby with the intention of not spending time with them.

Whether you send them to daycare or have a nanny or whatever. Why have a child to purposely have others care for them? I just don't get it. It feels to me that people are clearly not having a child with the child being their most important priority.


I'm not sure how having them in a daycare means not spending time with them.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 8:00pm
I disagree.  I think good daycare serves a great purpose.

I have heard something like this before.

what does she mean by need?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 8:03pm
If maysay was talking about boarding school and not daycare id agree.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 8:03pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I wish more jobs had on site daycare to support parents (single or married) who continue working during the child rearing years.


I wouldn't get any work done....I'd be there stalking my baby.....making her do silly stuff like make animal noises and kissy facesEmbarrassedLOL.....and telling every one she's a genius cause she did some trivial shytLOL
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 8:04pm
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

I really don't understand having a baby with the intention of not spending time with them.

Whether you send them to daycare or have a nanny or whatever. Why have a child to purposely have others care for them? I just don't get it. It feels to me that people are clearly not having a child with the child being their most important priority.


I'm not sure how having them in a daycare means not spending time with them.


There are many people who send their kids to daycare for up to 12 hours a day. Or send the to before school care/school/after school care.

So their child spends the majority of the time they are awake with the daycare provider or teacher instead of their own parents.

At our summer camp I had parents show up at 6:45am when I would open up (we started at 7) and I didn't see them again until 7pm. That is just not right.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 8:04pm
back in the day folks had kids to help till the land and ish like thatLOL

nowadays people have kids for other reasons. fulfillment, status quo, i don't know. having kids without being mentally and financially prepared is just not for me. i don't knock anyone else's choices. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 8:05pm
Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

i agree with maysay about placing newborns in daycare. that is so weird to me but this is a touchy subject so i'll tread lightly.


yeah we had a spirited discussion about this w/ my nephew  (me, the mom, & my sis)
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 8:06pm
once the child is here, folks gotta do what they gotta do though.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 8:06pm
dont agree, so if i can't afford to stay at home full time then i should not have kidsStern Smile....but can't you say the same thing about sending them to.school since they are there the same amount of time. I had my daughter in home daycare as an infant and then a facility once she turned 3. People always find some way to make their way of living seem more superior.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 04 2014 at 8:07pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

 
I don't think that's in the context of what she means.

You can afford daycare but can't afford to be a stay at home mom or you don't want to..

She is anti working mother bc she feels it hurts the children


ok that's what she meant by 'need.'
Yes, I've heard exactly that before many times from women.
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