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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

TC send her back when she's 8-10 years thanks.Big smile
 
lol.  i love them when they are like arm baby - about 2 Big smile 
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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Can y'all drop these excellent child rearing tips, stimuli, strategies et al right here. Ive been seeing lizards all over my house (more than normal) I feel it's a sign. If a lizard falls on you, you are pregnant or someone you know is. Im not sure how it'll work out but the lizards never lie.
 
lmaoooo wtf!!!!! 
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oh I'm not knocking stay at home moms

but some kids do fair better after they start daycare
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Oh and sorry the blog I was talking about is Mr. Money Mustache. No he didn't benefit from generational wealth outside of the fact that his parents were able to care for him from 0-18. He's from Canada so he benefitted from their healthcare and the fact that their university system is cheaper (can't remember about student loans or not). He and his wife chose high salary careers and lived on like half of what they made and invested the rest.

A more typical American story would be Man v. Debt. The family had your regular debt (mortgage, student loans, etc). Sold everything, traveled/worked in an rv for a while, saved money, etc.

And there are countless stories that aren't nearly as "extreme" but involve living below your means so that you can do what you want.

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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


oh I'm not knocking stay at home moms

but some kids do fair better after they start daycare
 
right...just like some kids fair better when they have a stay at home parent.  figuring out which lane one falls into is the goal...imo...
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im late but that blogger has a net worth of $1 million

Even so, personally I feel he should maximize his earning potential while he's young but like you said there are many ways to live 


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true

but not I'm saying stay at home moms are doing a bad job

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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

im late but that blogger has a net worth of $1 million

Even so, personally I feel he should maximize his earning potential while he's young but like you said there are many ways to live 




so he is wealthy lol
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Right, they are wealthy now. Mr Money Mustache was a high income earner before he retired. But the dude from Man v. Debt was wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy in the red. Same for the guy who writes The Simple Dollar.

Like I said, it's all about priorities.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


true

but not I'm saying stay at home moms are doing a bad job
 
i didn't think you were.  just like i'm not saying sending kids to daycare would be terrible.  just not for me...i know i could do better...and would actually want to...
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