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Points: 46063 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 02 2014 at 9:30pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Nope.
 
Those memories may hurt, but they were a part of events that shaped my life and happened for particular/important reasons.
 
I'd hate to ignore something someone did/said to me in the past and be giving them love/attention/affection they surely do not deserve.
 
I wanna remember every little thing you did to make me hate you so when I'm famous, I can laugh in your face when you come itchin' like a crackhead for a dolla.


Was just coming in to post this...

I cant imagine myself keekeeing it up with some people I have cut out of my life for a reason, cos I forgot the reason
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Without hesitation. Some memories are just burdens. They don't help you grow or elevate you, they just saddle you.

totally agree with this.  especially if they happened to you as a child when you not only didn't deserve the experience, but makes it much more difficult to develop certain tools as an adult.
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Points: 232632 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2014 at 4:59pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


this thread helped me realize why I really do have a problem with forgiveness

not so much the act but getting over how the person made me feel

if I think something is deliberate it's so hard to forgive someone purposefully hurting you

it's also the reason why I like emotionally hurting the person as an a way to get even....usually if I can do this I can get over something pretty quick

....my EQ (not IQ) isn't too high when it comes to this lol


yes.

..people will forget what you said and what you did, but will never forget how you made them feel.  /Maya A.
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Points: 97596 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2014 at 6:21pm
I will never forget that phrase.
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Points: 27143 		Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2014 at 8:40pm
Yes life would be so much easier.
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That quote is so true for good and bad.
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Erase the memory a..NOPES. Everything bad that happened to me has made stronger and more capable of handling situations now .
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