| Beauty620 wrote:|
This is a really good topic, I wish there would have been more feedback
My question would be what if your dude try his best to provide for you and your family... but you feel as if it's just not enough because you have alot on your plate....what if he was at a time in his life when he's going thru a rough time and keeps hitn hard bottom...but the flip side to it is, he's been trying to get his life in order for 1 year already. Should you just continue holding everything down and take what little help you can and keep faith that everything will soon get better, or be done with the whole relationship and just move on?
It is important to be understanding: if the guy truly is trying but you feel that it is not enough... maybe the problem is you. One thing is a guy who hears you talk about your problems and says "everything will be fine" and then goes on to tell you of his newest and pricey purchase, another is when you tell the guy your problems and he is like "let me help you".
If the guy is providing for you, regardless of you being married or not and you still think it is not enough, b!tch you are selfish.
Now if the guy is having financial problems for a while and has been having a hard time getting out of that and he is really trying by applying to jobs, doing his best to succeed in his interview, etc, one should not say "f*ck him" just because he cannot provide.
But the materialistic, selfish girls will disagree.