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SamoneLenior 
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 Topic: if girlfriends shouldn't do wife duties,
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:42pm |
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is it reasonable to say the same of boyfriends? Boyfriends shouldn't do husband duties?
please add wife duties and husband duties if you wish
examples:
getting credit cards together
getting checking/saving accounts together
co-signing for anything
buying property together
washing their clothes
cooking for them everyday or almost everyday
pay their rent/mortgage
buy them a car
fixing up their car/apt/home
sex on call
Edited by SamoneLenior - Jan 08 2013 at 7:06pm
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:44pm |
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Hol up let me see where the thread goes
Edited by jonesable - Jan 08 2013 at 6:47pm
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:48pm |
when i think of husband duties im thinking of things like fixing my car, fixing something in the house, paying for xyz....i definitely expect my bf to fix something before i have to pay someone else to do it. any real man would fix something they're capable of doing before they have their girlfriend pay another man to.
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:48pm |
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i need more details smartsamone
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:48pm |
I spoke with my boyfriend about this, and he said he would never propose to a woman that hadn't demonstrated to him that she'd make a good wife. As far as a man doing "husband" duties, I appreciate that my man does those things. What we do doesn't work for everyone, but it works for us.
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:48pm |
hmm...
theyre both wife/husband in training so i dont see why things wouldnt be done...
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:48pm |
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Doing husband duties is a part of courting. He needs to show that he's capable of being a good provider.
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:49pm |
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is this why black women don't get married? they never show that they're anything more than gf material? learn me something bhm
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:50pm |
 ms_wonderland wrote:
when i think of husband duties im thinking of things like fixing my car, fixing something in the house, paying for xyz....i definitely expect my bf to fix something before i have to pay someone else to do it. any real man would fix something they're capable of doing before they have their girlfriend pay another man to. |
I agree. My SO fixes my car, pays for everything, puts together things, and basically helps me with everything. He is super handy, which was great when we bought my desk from IKEA. 
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