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    Posted: Dec 16 2012 at 7:03pm
Would you be able to forgive yourself?


I have a friend whose parent passed last year around this time because she did not administer CPR properly...instead of placing her parent on the floor, she performed CPR on the bed. The paramedic told her she should have NEVER gave CPR on the bed because that is what killed her parent...


She has not moved on and I fear she will harm herself soon. She has tried therapy and counseling on medication for depression but claims nothing works. I don't know what to do for her
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Why did the paramedic guilt trip her like that?
CPR save only like what 10% of lives...you have to get there in time and all that jazz.
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I hope she can move past this because it is in no way her fault.

CPR should be taught more frequently though b/c i have seen it save a couple lives.
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that paramedic is a dick and has no training....and in that circumstance no.

but i remember reading one story where this girl was in an abusive relationship.  she finally mustered the courage to leave. her mother goes to get her stuff and the boyfriend kills her mom.  in that circumstance i would feel incredibly guilty. they were black too
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Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Cry

Why did the paramedic guilt trip her like that?
CPR save only like what 10% of lives...you have to get there in time and all that jazz.



And that's just the thing also, she did not get there in time. Her parent was a hypochondriac and she admits she took her precious time getting there because she thought this was another case of them just wanting to go to the hospital just because.



I'm so scared for her because she has turned to alcohol to cope. I went to visit her and she was violent with me. Scared me. I spoke with her this evening and she doesn't remember ever putting her hands on me. I worry she will hurt herself or someone else

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that paramedic is an ahole and i hope nothing but terrible things happens to him. anyways i think the passing of a parent is rough enough to think you might be the cause Cry poor lady. she doesn't have any siblings or family she can stay with? that is so depressing. 
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

that paramedic is a dick and has no training....and in that circumstance no.

but i remember reading one story where this girl was in an abusive relationship.  she finally mustered the courage to leave. her mother goes to get her stuff and the boyfriend kills her mom.  in that circumstance i would feel incredibly guilty. they were black too

i wonder how guilty Jennifer Hudson's sister feels...i think people were ragging on her about her initial statements.
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what about shooting and killing your son because you mistook him for a robber in the home>? Cry 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote PurplePhase Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 16 2012 at 7:16pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

that paramedic is a dick and has no training....and in that circumstance no.

but i remember reading one story where this girl was in an abusive relationship.  she finally mustered the courage to leave. her mother goes to get her stuff and the boyfriend kills her mom.  in that circumstance i would feel incredibly guilty. they were black too

i wonder how guilty Jennifer Hudson's sister feels...i think people were ragging on her about her initial statements.


yes that has to be hard. I made a thread here about a grandson that murdered the grandparents. The family didn't want his parents to attend the funeral  . It split the family.
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Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

that paramedic is an ahole and i hope nothing but terrible things happens to him. anyways i think the passing of a parent is rough enough to think you might be the cause Cry poor lady. she doesn't have any siblings or family she can stay with? that is so depressing. 



Absolutely no one. She says she can't face them because at the funeral no one would even look at her.

I wanted to get her a book about moving on for Christmas but I'm worried I'm over stepping...or it just might not be the time and place.
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