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    Posted: Jul 15 2008 at 3:04pm
Someone just sent me this.  I'm not sure who the author is but truer words have never been spoken.  I would have really been able to use this kind of advice when I started dating way back in the Flinstone days but I had to learn the hard way.
 
Anyhoo, I just wanted to pass this on to all the ladies cuz it's too good to keep to myself.  Sorry if it has been posted before.
Peace....
 
 

IF A MAN WANTS YOU

 

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

 

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

 

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

 

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

 

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant

to be.

 

Slower is better.

 

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly

happy.

 

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you

deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't

mistreat a friend.

 

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he

probably is.

 

Don't stay because you think "it will get better."

 

You'll be mad at yourself

a year later for staying when things are not better.

 

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

 

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different

women.

 

He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you

any differently?

 
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

 

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

 

If something bothers you, speak up.

 

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

 

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

 

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if

he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a

quasi-god.

 

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

 

Never let a man define who you are. 

 

Never borrow someone else's man.

 

Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

 

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

 

All men are NOT dogs.

 

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a

two-way street.

 

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute

about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new

relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a

relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone

complimentary...not supplementary.

 

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.

Right.

 

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,

and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

 

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you

need.

 

Keep him in your radar but get to know others as well.

 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 15 2008 at 4:01pm

Wow I love it!!!!Clap...I need to print it out.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 15 2008 at 4:02pm
Very wise statements. Wish more women took them to heart.
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Trust me my 14yo will get a printed copy too.
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Very good post!
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ClapClapClap OMG This is sooo True I love it !
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