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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2013 at 4:17pm

I think if you were a size 2 in high school when you met him and you are now a size 16 .. you probably do look pretty big to your man.

I say that because at 5'9", I was a size 14 in highschool. Several years later when I started doing face modeling (Ebony magazine) I was told that for my frame at a size 8 I would be small enough to do regular modeling. So yes a 14 may be big but if you are tall ...umm not so much. A 16 puts me in the bigger zone .. but more like thiick smaller waist - big hips - big breasts.
 
But at 5'9" I could have never gotten into a size 2 in high school .. and still have been alive. So if you were a size 2 that tells me you are fairly short maybe with a smaller frame but now that same frame is carrying a size 16?  
 
I think you should face this and not pretend that you are just 'thick'.
 
That said ... you should be able to eat anyway you want to eat. You are a grown woman. You have to lose weight because YOU want to lose weight. Period. So if your man is trying to pressure you into changing your eating habits and is threatening to leave you etc - F him.
 
I wouldn't stay with a man that would put me under that kind of pressure. If he has a problem with your weight - he should move on.
 
Neither of you need to stay in a relationship where your weight is a problem for one of you because as you age ... maybe have kids etc .. you will naturally gain even more weight. You mentioned the foods you eat .. well, you know these are not healthy foods ... so that's on you. Confused


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2013 at 6:03pm
he's just being honest with you.  if u went from 2 to 16 you will only get bigger, not smaller.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2013 at 6:14pm
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

im in a size 16 jeans and i look lovely

i say eat what you want when you want.
its what i do.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 30 2013 at 6:54am
lol its actually true tho.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 01 2013 at 11:29pm
Originally posted by Princess_BBW Princess_BBW wrote:

And my boyfriend wants me to eat rabbit food.He eats like a dam slob and stays thin I am not obese by any standards i am a size 16 and curvy. big titties phat ass and no. rolls.He always tells me im on a train to fat girl town if i continue to eat the way i do.I was raised on soul food.Yams,fried chicken,mac n cheese,cornbread n gravy and homemade banana pudding.I have plenty of buttered bread with meatballs n cheese basically i like to eat!He says if i get any bigger he will leave. oh well see ya!I cant see myself changing my eating habits to please a man.We have been together since high school i was a size 2 but as i got older i thickened up and i was on depot shot.He needs to get a grip if he wants skinny go get a white chick.


So being skinny is white chick status? Ermm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 04 2013 at 8:43am
Yea i am sorry i made this topic.I could care less what he thinks now lol< ="http://site.metrics/service/partner.php">
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 06 2013 at 7:24pm
Some people are the same size as they were in high school or close to it.  I feel like your boyfriend probably just wants you to be healthy and of course he wants to stay attracted to you. I'm 5'6 138 and my boyfriend likes me at 150 which was my biggest never gonna happen again but if you love this person and value they're opinion you can find a happy medium for the both of you. 
 
These ladys are all size 16 in jeans and they're all overweight.
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 07 2013 at 10:07am
I agree a size 16 is overweight but ... how much overweight and how they look in jeans depends on their build and height. How tall are these women?
 
I think a size 16 on a woman that is 5'2" with a small frame/bone structure (for example: has smaller shoulders, wears a size 6 shoe etc) looks A LOT different than a size 16 on a woman that is 5'10" with a larger frame/bone structure (like broader shoulders, size 10 shoe etc).
 
If you are 5'2" and are of a average weight ... everything you buy will be a 'Misses' or a 'Petite' because the length of your legs and arms are shorter.
 
But if you are 5'10" no matter how small .. you can not wear 'Petites" at all. If anything they will always look like 'high waters' on you because they will be too short. So 99% of all your clothing will be from the 'Woman's' section. So I wonder if the above size 16s are 16P, 16T or 16Womens (or something along those lines).
 
It's about 'proportion'.
 
The same with weight. 170 lbs is gonna look a certain way on a girl that is 5'2" and whole other way on a girl that is 5'10".
 
(The jeans on the last girl - the one with tattos - are too small for her. Her mid section is overflowing and her thighs are too big for those pants - so certainly when she bends to sit .. she will have a problem. She needs to go up a size and have the jeans tailored to suit her curves. All my jeans are tailored - it's the only way to go sometimes!) )


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 07 2013 at 7:16pm
Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

hes probably trying to help you eat healthier.


By threatening someone with the ending of a long term relationship? 'Fuuuuck?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 07 2013 at 7:19pm
I think op just said go get a white chick because you know how white people are obsessed with slimness.
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