Umm sorry but .... think that is over the top advice
... that can be sooo easiliy misconstrued by many of the readers here.
Beyonce and all these celibs .. are making money off their looks etc - this is their JOB
but this is not the path for a young lady to follow. '.. men.... lick their lips when you walk by..? Wow .. I would never pass on such advice to a young person that has yet to find herself. No, this is the surest way to put a person with low self esteem into a position ... that she cannot handle.
I think the OP .. needs to develop her self esteem, build up her confidence, be in the company of other women who are making something out of their lives (not chasing men, hooking up in THE CLUB, dropping babies, or looking for a payday and certainly not walking down the streets in the hopes that X number of men/women are drawwwwwn to her sexually/sentually
I think if a girl in high school is operating on that level AT THAT AGE .. ummm something else is going on.
Sorry, but these kind of girls usually peak
in High School. After High School they kind of fade away into some mundane life. But she should be peaking wayyyyy into her 40's and that comes from making some sort of real investment in herself.
Rather ... educated, self assured women that are working toward something substantial should be her goal. This is the sort of behavior she should be modelling so that she can attract men (take them or leave them) that themselves are substantial. No desparate clinging to this or that guy. All this will take quite some time to achieve.
Not some rap crap urban type dude, with some freaky fantasy in his head that's just gonna use her for sex.
Then put herself together physically and carry herself like .. she knows where she is going in life. She needs to build a good relationship with herself first ... it's not so IMPORTANT that she gain so much male attention in the first place. DUH!
I say .. make yourself somebody .. on the inside and then let nature take it's course...
Edited by Becky - Nov 04 2012 at 3:04am