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more like you want the wrong type of male attention

you dont need male attention, you need self esteem, and validation from men isnt going to give you it...Leave men alone, and get yourself together
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That's correct .. get yourself together.
 
If you show everything God gave you, act like a tramp, get drunk at the pub etc you will get A LOT of (the wrong type) male attention.Thumbs Down
 
They will see you as easy and they will spend all their time lying to you so they can get you in bed .. and then they will be GONE. So then you are alone and back to the pub or the club .. showing everything and acting desparate again ... until another one lands you in bed .. and then HE will also be gone.
 
If you want some male attentiion, get yourself together both mentaly and phyically. Mentally because DECENT men want a DECENT girl and a decent girl is gonna dress and conduct herself like a lady and is not gonna make the fisrt move on a guy by approaching him, dress like a hoe etc, not gonna pay him much attention  is NOT gonna make it easy for a guy to catch her. He has to come to YOU .. if he doesn't come to you .. probably he does not find you attractive.
 
I think a decent girl will be into her own thingm her own career, making something out of herself ... a guy will have to work hard to get her. That doesn't men she does not go out and party and dance etc .. her life is just not pivoting around a mans life
 
EVERY GUY is not gonna find you attractive though - this is normal. But if NO GUYS finds you attactive  - ummm then you need to take a long honest look in the mirror.Unhappy
 
Let's face it. Men are not so bright ... so they are not gonna see that you have all these nice qualities if you are not physically attractive. So if you have bad skin, bad teeth, bad hair (texture is not the issue here), too much makeup, jewelry, hooker clothes, you speak loudly, are aggressive etc .... there are NO decent men that will come your way or will find you attractive.
 
So put yourself on project status - improve your appearance (don't mask it with junk!) and work on yourself on the inside. Develop some interests, do volunteer work, get imvolved in The Arts etc.. BE IN PLACES where decent men hang out and then .... let a decent guy .. come to you. DO NOT HIT on a guy.
 
When he does come to you  SAY NO to sex for as long as you want. The longer you delay sex .. the more likely it is that he is into you and not just into sex from you.
 
If he sticks around and you really get to know each other 1. you might find out he's nothing and you dump him! 2) you might find that you like each other and both want something real.
 
If he dumps you after a few weeks because he wants sex .. he was never into YOU .. he just wanted sex. Move on.
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Originally posted by healthyhair42012 healthyhair42012 wrote:

Why do you want this attention? The men who give it to you probably won't be worth your time to begin with

I agree.
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If you wear a mini skirt and a tube top and stand at the side of the street with smudged lipstick, you will get alot of male attention. But if you want to get male attention in a classier way, maybe become more conversational , wear clothes that are proper and fashionable for your body type, and just be more confident. 
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i totally agree with becky and nala on these points...if you dress like a hooker you WILL get male attention and be popular for all the wrong reasons, just for sex with no one taking you seriously...be a class act, get yourself together and quality guys will be attracted to you..sometimes being at your sexiest doesnt involve putting all your GOODS out for everyone to see..but an inner confidence..your eyes can portray your sexiness also...work on your facial expressions or as tyra says 'smize with your eyes' good luck
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There are waaaay too many girls/women who want attention and not respect. SMH.
 
This thread should be re-titled "How to receive negative attention and attract loosers/womanizers/misogynists/bottom barrel men"
 
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Originally posted by Prazol60 Prazol60 wrote:

Post pictures of your boobs and ass ,aact like a slut, get drunk and make out with girls at bars. 
 
Sounds rather whorish
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 25 2012 at 12:04pm
confidence works around these parts.

but all the above works as well.
dont forget being a celeb.Confused
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote laceyfront Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 25 2012 at 4:14pm
It sounds like your ugly, you could go the slutty route which a lot of ugmos do. Or you could try a makeover, do your hair and have someone show you how to apply makeup. You can show cleave but you don't have to go overboard and jeans that flatter your curves.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote used2braid Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 30 2012 at 8:06am

With men, they are looks driven. So focus on making yourself look as appealing as possible and project a very open and friendly vibe (good eye contact, smiling etc...)

But remember, looks get their attention but personality gets their heart....
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