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Hi ladies, I have never posted here before but suddenly find myself in dire need of some kinda support. A little background..... 3 weeks ago I promised my bf to stay sober ad was good till now. My bday was the other day and I felt like I could enjoy some drinks (hey im 27 now gotta have on last hurrah). I woke up the next day and I guess you could say I was still in "party mode" drank again...I knew it was time to quit cos I was gettin crazy and effing up my promises. Day 3 I was severely tempted and actually started googling booze but i told myself no. And stayed sober. My bf comes home and sees on the computer I'd been lookin at booze andd immediately accuses me for being drunk. We had a big argument . a lot was said. including he Al...word. Hes never called me that. I guess now I know how he feels. Now we are not even on talking terms. Im tryna explain to him I actually overcame the temptation to keep drinking but it falls on deaf ears. Now, Im sad and alone. I dont really have any girlfriends I can call, and just feel like sh##t. Cosidering a drink now seeing as im already labelled a boozer. If anyones out there I'd love some support.
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Feel better, wait till everyone is calm and ask to have a serious convo with him and explain everything! Hope everything works out
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Join AA. He won't believe you changed overnight, so make a big step.
Or move on with your life without him and alcohol.
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You may need to seek treatment.  Admitting you have a problem is half the battle and based on what you have stated you have a problem.
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Originally posted by NinaP1234 NinaP1234 wrote:



Hi ladies, I have never posted here before but suddenly find myself in dire need of some kinda support. A little background..... 3 weeks ago I promised my bf to stay sober ad was good till now. My bday was the other day and I felt like I could enjoy some drinks (hey im 27 now gotta have on last hurrah). I woke up the next day and I guess you could say I was still in "party mode" drank again...I knew it was time to quit cos I was gettin crazy and effing up my promises. Day 3 I was severely tempted and actually started googling booze but i told myself no. And stayed sober. My bf comes home and sees on the computer I'd been lookin at booze andd immediately accuses me for being drunk. We had a big argument . a lot was said. including he Al...word. Hes never called me that. I guess now I know how he feels. Now we are not even on talking terms. Im tryna explain to him I actually overcame the temptation to keep drinking but it falls on deaf ears. Now, Im sad and alone. I dont really have any girlfriends I can call, and just feel like sh##t. Cosidering a drink now seeing as im already labelled a boozer. If anyones out there I'd love some support.


this sounds too serious for me too joke about. You are an alcoholic, its okay, there is help. Just try to go to a an AA meeting and see if you like it, then update us.
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CLEARLY you are an Alcoholic but you can't even write it out imn your thread and you flipped out because your man called you an Alcoholic. We can all see it just by the text you posted.
 
You should get out of denial and get into a program.
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My dear, I think you are an alcoholic due to your dependency on it. Please join AA or any rehabilitation program because you're not going to change overnight and he knows it.

I wish you well in your endeavors.
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