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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 05 2013 at 4:24am
Originally posted by rell85 rell85 wrote:

LOL @ her not wanting grandkids either go figure she knew if she didn't have kids her husband wouldn't have stuck around.


pretty much

i think its selfish to not want kids and then have them just so you dont stay single or afraid to be left by your partner



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This is just crazy.
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She looks like a dude..
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Words cannot describe the feeling of euphoria I felt when they laid those tiny warm bodies on my chest after the 38 weeks and 22 hours of torture and pain. And I was unsure whether or not I wanted children. Now I can't imagine my life without them. Hopefully, when they are in their teens, they won't make me regret them.....

I find it interesting that she says she agreed to have two kids. My sister and told me that she doesn't know how I can be at home with my kids all the time. She said she loves her kids but needs that time at work to keep her sanity.

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Lol BHM is so anti children. Yall gone be some old, old, old maids.
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Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

I think we need more true stories like this.  I don't think pictures n'stuff should be posted but....this type of stuff needs to be said.   So younger females coming up will know that it's ok to not want children.  That you're not strange and that it's not required of you to bear children.  


I agree. A lot of women feel like this but just won't admit to it because people will shame them.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Xamaycana Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 05 2013 at 6:58am
She is vile.  How can you be more concerned about a dog than your child?  She probably would have been happier if she paid a nanny to take care of the kids and went back to work.  With that mindset I can't see how staying home with her kids offered them any benefit.

I am a stay at home mom.  My other SAHM friends and I often joke that returning to an office would be like a vacation.   Children are hard work.  Raising a child properly is a more than full-time job and they do require a large amount of finances if you want to give them the best opportunities in life.  Her problem was expecting something from the kids in return.  Because I do for my daughter out of pure love for her, I do not resent the sacrifices.  That is the nature of motherhood.  It is the toughest job but has many moments that are just priceless
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I wanna believe this is a shock piece...

Cuz otherwise this lady is a stone cold wretch

To admit this publicly is just
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I applaud her honesty.
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This thread is interesting. And folks always have to nerve to say that kids are "throwing away" their parents when they put them in nursing homes. A lot of folks deserve it. I already told my mom she's going to one, she fukked up my life
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