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she said the abuse isnt 24/7 but she also said he told her that he's not happy and planned on continuing to cheat on her...what's really going to happen is he will use her, abuse her, permanently damage her, and move on to the next chick.  she will get kicked out of that family's house and THEN she will be running to people who were offering help.
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they live with his parents?

he beats her in his parent's house?

he is cheating?  with who?  ha!  the man is married and living at home and you think you hit the man jackpot!   that side piece is pitiful.

how old is the baby?  can she get a job?  all this time on the internets, learn how to program in a lucrative language and you can work from home and cake unawares.




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they live with his cousins so as soon as things go south she will have no time to plan anything.  that's why i wish she would plan now.

the first thread she made was mainly about her confronting him for his staying out all night and cheating...he admitted to it and basically said, "so what, do something about it".
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Her posts all read like a poorly written fan-fic story. I hope she finds her peace.
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I hope she's not on bs & have some of us worried about her... THAT would be tragic....
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote Qualified Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 07 2013 at 11:29pm
Ruby darlin, you already know there are resources available. I live in NYC, and Im willing to help, but I aint wiiling to be made a fool of, because I gets real foolish when someone fuccs with my time and energy (insert serious face). Im leary of offering help when the abusee is not ready for the life line, I've been burned like that before by one of my very good friends, it resulted in me pulling a gun on her ex, and I almost caught a charge behind her bullsh!t. So you see, When you're ready, and I do mean REALLY, REALLY, Really READY, pm me.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote rickysrose Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 07 2013 at 11:31pm
oh thanks mswonderland ... yes I agree if the incident with her friend's baby daddy didnt show her that her options are limited

then I don't know what else can

she definitely needs a plan b, c, d and e in effect .... she might even be surprised as soon as she has the confidence that options bring, he may just act right

and he if doesn't, exercise those options

desperation isn't a healthy option


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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

she said the abuse isnt 24/7 but she also said he told her that he's not happy and planned on continuing to cheat on her...what's really going to happen is he will use her, abuse her, permanently damage her, and move on to the next chick.  she will get kicked out of that family's house and THEN she will be running to people who were offering help.


I wouldn't be surprised if she ever gets kicked out. But I wouldn't be surprised if she tries to claw her way back in. And I definitely wouldn't be surprised if he takes her back in to continue the abuse because people like that thrive off the thrill of power and control.

Abuse is such a sad thing.. I'm still really miffed at the mods for not stickying all of the abuse information I supplied in relationships. I compiled that ish because of members like OP. No matter how many times I message them, they ignore me.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Diane (35) Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 10 2013 at 10:19am
R@@shole!! I've been off BHM for a few weeks and I miss this update. I dont even have time to read it but I will.
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She should change the thread title to "I stayed"....just sayin.
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