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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote india100 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 06 2013 at 11:41am
Originally posted by **RuBy FoXx** **RuBy FoXx** wrote:

I am seriously about to leave. I feel majorly uncomfortable. Idk what I shud do I'm goin to sit in my in laws backyard.
NO!!! YOUR IN LAWS WILL HELP THE MAN . SEND ME THE INFO TO CALL THE SHELTER IN YOUR CURRENT AREA FOR YOU IF YOU ARE AFRAID . ONCE I CALL YOU CAN'T BACK DOWN OR I AM DONE . Hug

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote bebe88 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 06 2013 at 11:47am
Yea stay away from those in laws please.

I was about to question that but I dont know the full story.
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Originally posted by **RuBy FoXx** **RuBy FoXx** wrote:

I mean I got here my friend had to go to work. I crashed in her bed kuz I was so tired. I wake up her bd is in the bed as well on the other side. I'm uncomfortable I think I'm going to leave already. Then I sit on the couch he comes out like o csn I sit here. I guess to kuz that's the spot to get wifi on their tablet but thsts making me uncomfortable
 
 
 
 
BD?   u mean baby daddy?!  ion... CALL INDIA!!
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote rickysrose Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 06 2013 at 11:51am
you are uncomfortable at a male friends house?   Yes that's natural.


Consider the shelter until you have your plan b together, and self sufficiency should be priority so you have the freedom to live where you want, with whom you want, when you want

Seems insurmountable but you can do it and you are so much more capable than you're given credit for 

Just keep taking steps and you'll eventually be where you need to be 


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going back or going to your in laws won't help anything because you already know he's going to beat you up again

Let the women's shelter help you secure your escape, your self sufficiency and custody of your child

Once you are safe, pressing charges might be in your best interest 


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ohhhhhhhhh. I get it now, yeah get to a shelter, with the full intention of getting in your own two feet asap


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Call India, call Claudie, go to a shelter with your child. You'll get connected with the right resources to help get you on your feet.

And stay away from your in laws.
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Where is your child when he crawled in the bed with you?? Do not go back to that man and DO NOT go to your in-laws, they will will only inform their son! If you're uncomfortable, go to a women's shelter. Or, wait until you can save up the proper funds for your own place so you can peace out asap
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I think OP means that when she left her abusive husband, she went to her friend's house but her friend had to go to work so OP fell asleep in her friend's bed. OP woke up and found her friend's baby daddy asleep on the other side of the same bed and OP is uncomfortable and is now questioning her decision to leave her abusive husband and wants to go to her in-laws' house who've aided and abetted their son in his abuse towards her.
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Praying Ruby called the women shelter .

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